HAFEEZ N & HAFEEZ N

About Your Relationship Profile

This report analyzes the personalities of both individuals to assess their compatibility. It also offers suggestions for ways to mitigate the stress or damage that can come from differing personalities and perspectives.

When you are in a relationship, you come to know each other more deeply over time. At first friction is rare. As time goes by and you discover additional sides to your partner, you become aware of personality traits you appreciate as well as some that rub you the wrong way. Even if you consider your relationship nearly perfect, you will experience occasional bouts of conflict.

Negative traits are almost always a cause of friction, but it is interesting to note that some qualities that are considered positive can also be incompatible. You may find this report is more critical or even harsh compared to other readings of this type. My approach is designed to throw light on differences in your chart that might benefit from a frank, unbiased examination. Ignoring potential issues can cause more damage overall than a few honest remarks in a reading.

You will probably encounter some texts that state: "The compatibility aspect in this area of the chart is already included in other parts of this report." Those texts are not repeated here because they are either redundant or offset by other conditions. This is done to offer a perspective that is as well balanced and clear as possible; repeating certain traits would place too much emphasis on them.

Hafeez and Hafeez, I hope you will appreciate the perspective of your Compatibility Report and will find it beneficial to your relationship.

Please note we use gender-neutral language when addressing individuals in our relationship readings. To some, using the singular "they," "them," and "their" may sound awkward, but we believe words matter. We aspire to include everyone.

Please verify that the name and date of birth showing below are accurate.

THE LIFE PATH

Your Life Path number is considered the single most significant information available in your Personality Chart. It is derived from the total of all numbers found in your date of birth. However, it is important to keep in mind that the aspects described in the next few chapters will either complement, supplement, or sometimes weaken the attributes revealed in numbers derived from your name.

Hafeez, your Life Path number is 8

You are gifted with natural leadership and the capacity to accumulate great wealth. You have great talent for management in all areas of life, especially in business and financial matters. You understand the material world; you intuitively know what makes virtually any enterprise work. Your talent lies not with the bookkeeping or petty management, but with the greater vision, its purpose, and long-range goals. You are a visionary and a bit reckless.

You possess the ability to inspire people to join you in your quest, but often they are incapable of seeing what you see. Therefore, those around you need your continual guidance, inspiration, and encouragement. You must prod them into action and direct them along the lines of your vision.

You attract financial success more than any other Life Path, but effort is required. Your challenge in life is to achieve a high degree of detachment, to understand that power and influence must be used for the benefit of mankind. Those born with the Number 8 Life Path, who do not understand the real and relative value of money are bound to suffer the consequences of greed; they run the risk of losing it all!

You must learn to bounce back from failures and defeats. You have the character and resilience of a true survivor. It is not uncommon for a person with your Life Path to experience major reverses, including bankruptcies, financial failure, but you also have the talent and the sheer guts to make more than one fortune, and build many successful enterprises. More than most people, your failures in marriage can be extremely expensive for you.

Despite the difficulties that life presents, you will experience the satisfaction that comes from material wealth and the power that comes with it. Business, finance, real estate, law, science (particularly history, archeology, and physics), publishing, and the management of large institutions are among the vocational fields that suit you best. You are naturally attracted to positions of influence and leadership -- Politics, social work, and teaching are among the many other areas where your abilities can shine. You are a good judge of character, which aids you well in attracting the right people to you.

Most 8s like large families and sometimes tend to keep others dependent longer than necessary. Although jovial in nature you are not demonstrative in showing your love and affection.

The desire for luxury and comfort is especially strong in you. Status is very important. You must be careful to avoid living above your means.

Your Life Path treads that dangerous ground where power lies -- and can corrupt. You may become too self-important, arrogant, and domineering, thinking that your way is the only way. This leads inevitably to isolation and conflict. The people you run the risk of hurting most are those you love, your family and friends.

Be careful of becoming stubborn, intolerant, overbearing, and impatient. These characteristics may be born early in the life of an 8 Life Path, who often learn these negative traits after suffering under a tyrannical parent or a family burdened by repressive religious or intellectual dogmas.

Those with the 8 Life Path usually possess a strong physique, which is a symptom of their inherent strength and resiliency.

Hafeez, your Life Path number is 6

You possess great compassion and seek to be of service to others. You have concern for the weak and the downtrodden. You are a healer and a helper to others. You are capable of giving comfort to those in need and will frequently offer a shoulder for others to cry on. Your task in life is to develop the tools necessary to be truly helpful to others, rather than to simply be a sympathetic ear.

You must find the balance between help and interference. In the same way, you must learn the delicate art of the counselor who knows when to leave the struggle to others and when to avoid taking away the necessary experiences and lessons of life. You are naturally balanced. Therefore, you are well equipped to support and ground others in times of trial.

It is in your nature to take on responsibility -- you often fill the void left by others -- and do not turn away from personal sacrifice. At times, you may feel overburdened by the travails of others. However, the love others bestow upon you is your well-deserved reward. You try to maintain harmony within the family or group, balancing and fusing divergent forces. You seek marriage and are often a wonderful parent, offering warmth, protection, and understanding to children.

You are generous, kind, and attractive. You are often admired even adored which baffles you. You are humble and yet you carry a deep pride. You move well and gracefully but will have to work to stay in shape. Seek out physical exercise and limit the sweets and dairy you crave to keep yourself from becoming plump and round.

When young, you must be careful not to choose partners for the wrong reasons. Do not let sentimentality influence your decision, especially those involving the choice of a spouse. You need to be needed but must learn to discriminate between those you can help and others who are made weaker by your care. After all, it is in your nature to be attracted to the weaker brothers and sisters among us.

The temptation, and the danger for you, is to think of yourself as the savior of the world, carrying the burdens of others on your shoulders.

You are blessed with musical talent, as well as in the visual and performing arts. However, your creativity may well be suppressed due to your willingness to sacrifice, or your inability to fully appreciate your talents.

This is not to say that you cannot excel in these areas; on the contrary, you have the talent, and with effort you can make a success in a number of artistic fields. You also have enormous talent in business. You are blessed with a great deal of charm and charisma, which you use effectively to attract the people and support you need.

How Your Life Path Numbers Compare

Your Life Path number is the most important influence in your chart. As such, their compatibility is very important to the well being of your relationship.

Hafeez and Hafeez, your Life Path Compatibility is 8 and 6

Hafeez and Hafeez, the 6 and the 8 are very compatible. You are both practical, goal-oriented people who are not afraid of responsibility. However, there are big differences in the way the 6 and 8 view responsibility, and an even bigger difference in the way they pursue their respective goals.

Hafeez (the 6) is strongly focused on family and friends, and hesitant to do anything that could endanger the comfort and safety of their loved ones. Hafeez's priority is fulfilling material goals and dreams. Where Hafeez will be reluctant to take risks that affect others, Hafeez does not hesitate to take carefully calculated risks to achieve their objective. Hafeez feels it will benefit everyone's life if their goals are met.

Interestingly, the 6 and 8 combination is excellent for business partnerships. The 8 inspires the 6 to aim higher and seize opportunities; the 6 keeps a reign on the dreams and vision of the 8. Without an 8 to inspire, the 6 will likely remain confined to small dreams requiring little or no risk. Without the grounded practicality of the 6, the 8 can get lost between creating the vision and achieving the goal.

In a romantic relationship, the numbers found in this part of the chart play off each other's strengths in similar ways that can be greatly beneficial. However, problems can arise if one partner tries to dominate the other. Hafeez, your tendency to sacrifice and take on any burden, plus your need to feel secure in a relationship, can put you at the mercy of Hafeez's somewhat assertive and demanding nature. Sometimes, the opposite will happen, and Hafeez's ability to make Hafeez feel guilty (by simply demonstrating how much they are willing to do for them) could hamper Hafeez's powerful, focused energy.

Hafeez and Hafeez, this aspect of your chart finds you at a fork in the road. You have the potential to enhance each other's strengths and talents, or to create frustration and discord. The key to maintaining a rewarding, balanced relationship is to ensure neither or you dominate or shame the other.

THE EXPRESSION

Your Expression number, calculated from your full name at birth, reveals the orientation or goal of your life. Some numerologists refer to this as your Destiny number because it represents a lifelong target at which you are aiming. Thus, the Expression number, to some extent, reveals the person you aim to be.

Your Expression is the most influential of the three characteristics that make up who you are. It is also the number with the most influence on your choice of career, although other aspects are important as well.

Hafeez, your Expression is 2

You have a great talent for working with others; you possess tact and refinement. You have a highly developed intuition. This provides you with insight into personalities and situations. Therefore, you act with tact and subtle persuasion. You possess a kind of radar, avoiding the landmines within another's personality, yet bringing out their goodwill. These abilities make you the perfect diplomat. You are a good counselor with an inborn talent for psychology and finely tuned intuition.

Your abilities are better expressed while working with others than by working alone. In the same way, you perform better in a partnership than in a leadership role. You seek balance and peace in all relationships and situations. The key to your personality is sensitivity, but there are two sides to the coin: You are able to perceive the thoughts and emotions of others and can work gently with others for a mutually shared goal. This makes you a great asset in any group endeavor. However, your sensitivity makes you vulnerable. You can be thrown off balance by an unkind word, a conflict, or by hostile conditions at work. You are far more upset by these conditions than people without your sensitivity. While others appear to be enduring troubled times with a modicum of turmoil, you suffer the turbulence of life as if your very survival were at stake.

In difficulties, you tend to persevere and steadily erode the resistance. You are like a gentle wind that shapes the rock.

You are friendly and open-minded. You are a great support person, pulling the best out of those around you. You are the power behind the throne. You are indispensable to the leadership of another, providing insight and advice that is essential. Yet, despite the invaluable service you provide, you often do not get the credit and recognition you deserve, which can be frustrating. Your natural modesty and the enjoyment you get from being an important asset is usually satisfaction enough for you.

Close relationships are essential to your happiness. When single, you dream of finding your "soul mate." When married, you are concerned with your spouse's needs, emotions, and thoughts. You are an outstanding marriage partner, giving, thoughtful, and conscious of meeting the needs of your loved one. You provide great support for your spouse's career. You are a passionate lover.

Parenthood is not an easy role for you, probably because you lack the will to enforce discipline and need a tranquil, delicate, and harmonious environment.

You are blessed with a high degree of musical talent. You have a good sense of rhythm and harmony.

Hafeez, your Expression is 2

Hafeez, your Expression is also a 2; the same as Hafeez’s

How Your Expression Numbers Compare

More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number reflects who you are as a whole person on a deep level (rather than the "face" you show to the world, described by your Personality number).

It cannot be over-emphasized how important it is to recognize that the same number in a different area of your chart will affect you differently. There may be times you read something that seems to directly contradict an earlier statement. Yet, if you take time to carefully think about the opposing information you might recognize that, being the complex individual you are, you carry the same contradictions. This is natural and true for all of us. You may excel at organization in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another. You may be tactful and sensitive in one setting, but direct and confrontational in another.

Be aware that it is more difficult to overcome negative traits you recognize in yourself when they are found in this part of the chart, than when they are found under the Life Path description.

Hafeez and Hafeez, your Expression Compatibility is 2 and 2

This aspect of the chart tells us both of you have a sensitive, vulnerable side. Sometimes this is favorable, but it can prevent issues from being resolved. There may be occasions when you step around issues too carefully, concerned about hurting the other. This can cause issues to fester and erode the foundation of your relationship. Try not to walk away from problems because you do not want to rock the boat. It is almost always better to face them head on. Although your concern about your partner's feelings are sincere, you should both guard against avoiding confrontation altogether.

As two people who experience emotions deeply, you are likely more vulnerable to criticism than others. This is another contributing factor in your tendency to avoid taking on important issues. If this type of avoidance persists, especially if unresolved issues have festered, you might lash out with a "below-the-belt" criticism, expressing your anger in a way that can be harmful to your relationship. This in turn makes it much more difficult to resolve underlying problems.

We all look for things we have in common, with the hope it will enhance our relationship. But the fact that you both carry a 2 in this area of the chart does not necessarily translate into an advantage. On the positive side, you easily relate to each other's emotional experiences. On the negative, your ability to commiserate can mean you are unable to "talk your partner down" during a highly emotional event.

Hafeez and Hafeez, your numbers suggest you both have the potential to use the occasional trivial lie to circumvent what you perceive as dangerous territory. This is not always a bad thing. However, unless other numbers in your chart support your ability to confront things directly when simple tact and diplomacy are not sufficient, you may end up creating distance without meaning to. Without open communication, you live in separate worlds. If you have the type of relationship where partners live their own life quite happily, this will not be as much of a concern. However, the fact that you are both people of the heart makes that scenario unlikely.

The key to maintaining a healthy relationship when both partners carry a 2 in this part of the chart is to recognize the need for scheduled heart-to-hearts. When an issue arises discuss it openly and frankly; try to avoid impulsive, dramatic discussions. Instead, let your partner know something is bothering you and ask for a good time to discuss it. Create a setting: make a cup of tea, sit in comfortable surroundings, and begin by confirming your love and commitment. Combining respect, care, and direct, honest communication can help you form a deep, long-lasting relationship.

THE PERSONALITY

The consonants of your full name at birth are the foundation of your Personality number, which is a little like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your true nature. It's the outer layer of your personality, the part you feel comfortable sharing. With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper aspects of your nature.

Your Personality number serves as a censoring device in terms of what you send out, as well as whom and what you allow to approach. For this reason, your Personality is usually narrower and more protective in its definition than the real you. It also gives an indication of how others perceive you.

Hafeez, your Personality number is 9

You have an impressive and aristocratic bearing. No matter how tall you are, you appear noble and upright. You are very much in control of the image you send out to others. Many actors, dancers, and other performers have a 9 Personality Number.

You are elegant, graceful, and charismatic. Many admire you. You have the kind of stature that pulls people to you or repels them intensely. Some are jealous of you and may seek to belittle you. You may encourage this to some extent by the amount of arrogance you radiate. This is a caution for all 9 Personalities -- they are sometimes aloof and hold themselves above the world. Your challenge is to come down to earth with your fellow man.

Conversely, you have a great compassion for humanity and want to dedicate yourself to improving the lot of others. You are better when dealing with the trials of the many than the trouble of a single person. You are more capable of working on the grand scale, addressing the needs of society, than on a one-to-one basis.

You are kind and sympathetic, helpful and compassionate. Behind the controlled and calm facade, you are sensitive, vulnerable and emotional.

You have excellent taste. There is a good deal of artistic talent in you that shows in your home environment and your clothing. You tend to see yourself as a guardian of society, a benevolent leader, guiding and directing your community toward a better world.

Hafeez, your Personality number is 9

Hafeez, your Personality is also a 9; the same as Hafeez’s

How Your Personality Numbers Compare

Your Personality is the first aspect people notice when you first meet. Very few relationships have a chance to progress if their Personality numbers are not compatible.

Hafeez and Hafeez, your Personality Compatibility is 9 and 9

Hafeez and Hafeez, this combination often creates a partnership that goes well beyond romance. Both idealists, you are sufficiently focused and have enough clarity of purpose to devote your life to a single goal, paying little or no attention to the monetary aspects. Contrary to what one might expect, this often results in financial prosperity, although not usually until somewhat later in life.

Most likely, the recognition of your similar outlooks was responsible for the initial attraction between you. Mutually inspiring endless conversations likely helped you feel your dreams were attainable and something you could pursue together. Your bond is strong and should not weaken over time since you thrive on sharing each other's experiences. Your compatibility is powerful and strengthens each of you as individuals. You may find yourselves choosing almost identical careers, perhaps even within the same organization or institution. Each of these similarities makes others see you as an unbreakable couple.

However, some pitfalls may exist, even in this extremely compatible combination. Hafeez and Hafeez, in extreme cases, the number 9 shows a tendency to believe in concepts and ideals to such an extent that it becomes an obsession. Self-righteousness, narrow-minded thinking, and religious fanaticism are common, nor are arrogance, pride, and a superficial confidence. This helps explain the fact that the number 9 is often found among political and religious extremists. Excessive belief in your ideals could also cause problems in your relationship, especially if your concepts differ or you devote 'too much time' to an organization or study your partner does not support. It is important for both of you to remain open to the ideas of others, to respect differing opinions, and to remain humble.

Hafeez and Hafeez, the only real danger in a relationship between 9's found in this part of the chart appears when one or both of you loses the ability for honest self-criticism and self-examination. It is essential to keep in mind that even with idealism, moderation is required - in fact, it is the keyword to safeguarding this otherwise excellent number combination.

MATURITY NUMBER

Your Maturity number indicates an underlying wish or desire that gradually surfaces at around age 30 to 35. A direction begins to emerge as you gain a better understanding of yourself. With this self-knowledge comes a greater awareness of who you are, and the direction you want to set for your life.

Hafeez, your Maturity number is 1

As you mature, you will find yourself needing an increasing amount of independence and individuality. You will fight harder for the recognition and rewards you feel you deserve and will be less willing to accept failure or limitations in any form. Hafeez, your drive and determination will grow as does your ability to take charge.

If there are already several 1s in your chart, especially among the core numbers, you will have to strive to avoid becoming bossy, rigid, stubborn and selfish. A person who allows these characteristics to run free will become bullish and lonely later in life. If there are not many 1s in your chart, the influence of the Maturity Number will help you to establish your independence and success. From this foundation, you will have an active, adventurous, and exciting latter part of life.

Hafeez, your Maturity number is 8

As you mature, you will grow in success and financial reward. You will find yourself deepening your commitment to your work. You will find it easier to overcome difficulties that manifest in your path. Your capacity to use power will grow; you will be recognized as a pillar of influence and dependability within your community. You will have to be strong and self-disciplined to avoid sudden painful material losses. Beware of ego-inflation, the surest symptom of an imminent fall.

The 8 Maturity Number requires a certain degree of detachment from material success; otherwise it will rule your personality and make money an obsession. Detachment allows you to remain focused on the higher values of mankind. One of your important motivations should be a desire to build, create, or market in order to enjoy the game of business.

Your wisdom and sheer common sense are recognized by many and will attract important positions. It is possible that you will be given responsibility for the care and management of another person's property. You may also be asked to guide large institutions.

If you already have several 8s in your chart, especially in the core numbers, you will have to guard against selfishness, accumulation for the sake of status, and greed. If you have few 8s in your chart, or none at all, your opportunity to achieve the success and financial independence is greatly increased.

How Your Maturity Numbers Compare

Your Maturity number becomes more dominant with age. The texts below become increasingly important after about age 40.

Hafeez and Hafeez, your Maturity Compatibility is 1 and 8

Your respective numbers make you both strong-willed and somewhat stubborn people. It could often feel like there are two captains on your ship, whose conflicting viewpoints can lead to discomfort at best or explosive arguments at worst. A willingness to compromise is extremely important for your relationship.

You both have good business instincts, which could result in successful shared endeavors (although Hafeez most likely has the greatest talent for managing financial affairs). Should you decide to work together, make sure to keep your responsibilities separated to avoid potential conflicts. Whether in business or your personal life, you will need to have faith in each other's abilities and respect your independence. With both of you preferring to do things your own way, this may not be an easy task. Neither of you easily allow the other to dominate, nor do you feel comfortable as the other's subordinate. Keep in mind Hafeez has a need to see material results and reward, while Hafeez is more interested in the satisfaction that comes from a job well done.

The fact that you are both quite sensitive behind your strong, self-reliant facade makes you vulnerable to being hurt by insensitive comments and arguments. Your keywords for a successful relationship are communication and compromise.

Although you probably take different approaches at times, you also have much in common; the 1 and the 8 are considered very compatible numbers. One positive aspect is your love of shared experiences. If you can be sensitive to the needs of your partner and communicate openly, you should be able to enjoy a rewarding relationship sharing the many interests you have in common.