JOHN DOE & JANE SMITH

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About Your Relationship Profile

This report analyzes the personalities of both individuals to assess their compatibility. It also offers suggestions for ways to mitigate the stress or damage that can come from differing personalities and perspectives.

When you are in a relationship, you come to know each other more deeply over time. At first friction is rare. As time goes by and you discover additional sides to your partner, you become aware of personality traits you appreciate as well as some that rub you the wrong way. Even if you consider your relationship nearly perfect, you will experience occasional bouts of conflict.

Negative traits are almost always a cause of friction, but it is interesting to note that some qualities that are considered positive can also be incompatible. You may find this report is more critical or even harsh compared to other readings of this type. My approach is designed to throw light on differences in your chart that might benefit from a frank, unbiased examination. Ignoring potential issues can cause more damage overall than a few honest remarks in a reading.

You will probably encounter some texts that state: "The compatibility aspect in this area of the chart is already included in other parts of this report." Those texts are not repeated here because they are either redundant or offset by other conditions. This is done to offer a perspective that is as well balanced and clear as possible; repeating certain traits would place too much emphasis on them.

John and Jane, I hope you will appreciate the perspective of your Compatibility Report and will find it beneficial to your relationship.

Please note we use gender-neutral language when addressing individuals in our relationship readings. To some, using the singular "they," "them," and "their" may sound awkward, but we believe words matter. We aspire to include everyone.

Please verify that the name and date of birth showing below are accurate.


First Person Full name at birth: John Doe

First Person Current name: John Doe

First Person Birthdate: January-01-1980

Second Person Full name at birth: Jane TestMiddle Smith

Second Person Current name: Jane Smith

Second Person Birthdate: May-15-1985

Report Start Date: August-03-2026




THE LIFE PATH

Your Life Path number is considered the single most significant information available in your Personality Chart. It is derived from the total of all numbers found in your date of birth. However, it is important to keep in mind that the aspects described in the next few chapters will either complement, supplement, or sometimes weaken the attributes revealed in numbers derived from your name.


John, your Life Path number is 2


The key word in your nature is peacemaker. John, you have the soul of an artist. You are extremely sensitive, perceptive, and a bit shy. These qualities are both your strengths and weaknesses, for while you possess enormous sensitivity to your feelings and those of others, that same sensitivity can cause you to hold back and repress your considerable talents. Sensitivity and perceptiveness are among your many fine qualities.

Because you intuitively know what people want, or feel, you can be extremely diplomatic and tactful. You are also patient and cooperative. You work well with groups and somehow find a way of creating harmony among diverse opinions.

You enjoy music and poetry and require a harmonious environment. You have an eye for beauty and a fine sense of balance and rhythm. You have healing capabilities, especially in such fields as massage, acupuncture, physical therapy, and counseling. However, your sensitivity can also be your downfall.

Your delicate ego bruises easily and can make too much of someone else's thoughtless remarks or criticisms. Because you get hurt easily, you may tend to withhold your own thoughts and contributions to the matter at hand. This can cause you considerable resentment and anger. Too often, you run from confrontation to avoid a battle.

When you employ your considerable inner strength, you will discover your enormous power and abilities to direct difficult situations toward your own goals. It is the awareness of your inner strength that will give you the courage to use your own personal power when it is needed. You are a sensitive and passionate lover; your perceptiveness makes you aware of your partner's needs and desires, which you are able to fulfill with almost magical delicacy.

However, when you feel you have been mistreated or jilted, you can react with devastating power, sometimes using personal criticisms vindictively. Your awareness, diplomatic skills, and organizational talents give you the ability to bring off difficult tasks. You willingly step out of the limelight to facilitate the success of your endeavor. In truth, you are often the power behind the throne. However, you do not always receive the credit you deserve for the fine work you've done, or your role is underestimated, and your accomplishments overlooked.

Rather than brood over your losses, you need to confront those who would make less of your contributions and stand up for your accomplishments. You need security and comfort, quiet settings, and the company of loved ones. You are a perfectionist when it comes to your home and work environment.

You have excellent taste which is obvious in your private surroundings. You are a fine companion and possess a good sense of humor. Friends seek you out for your calming and peaceful company. You are a safe haven to other sensitive people, who recognize your compassion and understanding. When you have found your niche in life, you have all the talents and intelligence for great success. Seek out work that allows your sensitive nature to flourish -- be the glue that binds others together.

Jane, your Life Path number is 7


You are the searcher and the seeker of the truth. You have a clear and compelling sense of yourself as a spiritual being. As a result, your life path is devoted to investigations into the unknown and finding the answers to the mysteries of life. You are well-equipped to handle your task. You possess a fine mind; you are an analytical thinker, capable of great concentration and theoretical insight. You enjoy research and putting the pieces of an intellectual puzzle together. Once you have enough pieces in place, you are capable of highly creative insight and practical solutions to problems.

You enjoy your solitude and prefer to work alone. You need time to contemplate your ideas without the intrusion of other people's thoughts. You are a lone wolf, a person who lives by his own ideas and methods. As a result, close associations are difficult for you to form and keep, especially marriage. You need your space and privacy, which, when violated, can cause you great frustration and irritation.

When your life is balanced, however, you are both charming and attractive. You can be the life of a party and enjoy performing before an audience. You enjoy displaying your wit and knowledge, which makes you attractive to others, especially the opposite sex. But you have distinct limits. While you are generous in social situations, sharing your attention and energy freely, you are keenly aware of the need to "come off stage" and return to the solitude of your lair. You associate peace with the unobtrusive privacy of your world. Therefore, intimacy is difficult for you, because you guard your inner world like a mother lion does her cubs.

All this privacy and aloneness can cause isolation and loneliness, however. You can be aware of emptiness in your life, a part of you that yearns for company and close companionship that may be unsatisfied. If isolation is brought to the extreme, you can become cynical and suspicious. You can develop hidden, selfish motives, which people may sense and may cause them discomfort around you.

You must guard against becoming too withdrawn and independent, thus shutting out the love of others and keeping you from experiencing the true joy of friendship and close companionship.

You must especially watch out for selfishness and egocentricity, thinking of yourself as the center of the universe, the only person who really matters. Social contact gives perspective on yourself and on life, while too much isolation can make you too narrow and even shut off from the rest of the world. Secretly, you may feel jealous of the easy relationships formed by others; you may perceive others as less inhibited than you, or freer to express themselves. You may harshly criticize yourself for not being more gregarious, powerful, or capable of greater leadership.

Your challenge in life is to maintain your independence without feeling isolated or ineffectual. You must hold fast to your unique view on the world, while at the same time being open to others and the knowledge they have to offer. With your abilities to learn, analyze, seek out answers to life's important questions, you have the potential for enormous growth and success in life. By the time you reach middle age, you will radiate refinement and wisdom.

Pythagoras loved the seven for its great spiritual potential.

How Your Life Path Numbers Compare

Your Life Path number is the most important influence in your chart. As such, their compatibility is very important to the well being of your relationship.


John and Jane, your Life Path Compatibility is 2 and 7


In this combination of numbers, intuition meets intelligence, sensitivity meets clinical research, and the heart meets the mind. It would be a challenge to find two more different archetypes than yours. John and Jane, you have a surprising relationship. Rarely do people with such different characteristics express even the slightest interest in each other. But when they do, the partnership is worth every effort. You almost certainly met under unusual circumstances, perhaps when you were both outside of your normal environment (I am guessing John, the 2, initially reached out to Jane). Once these dissimilar numbers (and personalities) get close enough, the result is often an exchange of energy that welds the relationship for life.

Potential pitfalls in this combination are generally experienced at the beginning of the relationship. There could be many challenges, including the inability to relate to your partner's way of thinking, feeling, or expressing emotion.

John's approach to love is soft and gentle, idealistic, romantic, emotional, and innocently childlike. Jane is less emotional and expressive - like a precious jewel, it requires a great deal to earn their love. Wisdom and knowledge, spiritual understanding and an ageless quality strengthen Jane's love. At the onset of the relationship, this was probably the biggest hurdle to overcome. Jane is not likely to trust love that comes easily, and John does not understand how responding to something as natural as love should be so difficult.

Sometimes, a relationship with this combination occurs after the partners have known each other for some time, when trust and understanding have been established (and before either considered a romantic relationship). A romance based on this solid foundation, balanced by pure sentiment on one side and wisdom and spiritual understanding on the other cannot help but succeed.

If you can accept and respect one another's differences, this will be the glue that binds your unique relationship together - a bond that you could say is almost unbreakable.

THE EXPRESSION


Your Expression number, calculated from your full name at birth, reveals the orientation or goal of your life. Some numerologists refer to this as your Destiny number because it represents a lifelong target at which you are aiming. Thus, the Expression number, to some extent, reveals the person you aim to be.

Your Expression is the most influential of the three characteristics that make up who you are. It is also the number with the most influence on your choice of career, although other aspects are important as well.


John, your Expression is 8


You have the power and potential to achieve great things. It is both your challenge and your birthright to gain dominion over a small part of the earth. Whatever your enterprise, you strive to be the best and most successful in your field. You are highly competitive and will not rest until you are satisfied that you have bypassed the opposition. You enjoy challenges and rivalry. You are a realist and a visionary planner.

Money and authority are available to you if you are willing to discipline yourself -- generally an inborn talent -- and persevere in the face of the considerable obstacles in your path. You are dynamic and have a talent for efficiency. You understand the larger picture, see the broader challenges, and know how to marshal your collective resources to address the problems. You delegate responsibility well; it is best for you to leave many of the details to others.

You are a great leader of people and an outstanding judge of character. You are demanding of those who work for you, often putting things in no uncertain terms: do it my way or don't do it at all! At the same time, you don't hesitate to reward the faithful and hardworking employee. You are not a particularly tolerant leader; too much tolerance violates your sense of efficiency. You go directly after your goal with courage and tenacity.

You have a natural understanding of money, authority, and power. You are able to struggle consistently after your goal. Eventually power falls to you. Within you lies an innate balance between the higher and lower characteristics of man. Your challenge in life is to balance your higher ideals and your understanding of the hard realities of the earth.

Much effort will have to be put out and many ups and downs experienced before you reach the level of success you desire. Life will probably test you many times with obstacles that seem insurmountable. But in reality, these are merely opportunities for you to learn how to use power and authority in the face of difficulties, and to find out just how much power lies within you. It is crucial for your success that you balance the material and the spiritual. You have chosen a path that requires balance between giving and taking, reward and punishment, action and reaction. Despite the obstacles on your path, you are a true survivor.

When focused exclusively on your desire for results and success, you can become stubborn and intolerant; you can be driven by excessive ambition, causing you to be exacting and without perspective. Be careful of your alcohol consumption, a danger-zone for you. You can be a social drinker, mixing business with pleasure -- a dangerous cocktail.

An excellent manager, organizer and administrator you have talents in many areas of life. Entrepreneurs, executives, bankers, brokers, negotiators, gamblers, coaches, collectors, heads of institutions, builders, art dealers, manufacturers, promoters, military officers, police detectives, smugglers, engineers, pilots or sea captains.

You have been entrusted with special gifts, the use or abuse of which has an immediate and often physical effect upon you and those around you! Use these gifts for the good of mankind and accept your own good fortune with gratitude. This is your rewarding stage in your evolution.

Jane, your Expression is 3


You are optimistic, inspiring, outgoing, and expressive. People see you as cheerful, positive and charming; your personality has a certain bounce and verve that so powerfully affects others that you can inspire people without effort. All of this upward energy is a symptom of your tremendous creativity. Your verbal skills may well lead you into the fields of writing, comedy, theater, and music.

Yours is the number of self-expression -- rich in imagination and spirit. But you have to be careful not to scatter your talents. Your bane is that you often lack discipline and order in your life. Avoid becoming a "happy- go-lucky" spendthrift, escaping responsibility and commitment. You must learn to concentrate and focus. These are the keys to your success. You have great potential in the arts and areas that requires creative solutions to problems. You are able to perform leaps of imagination, providing unconventional ideas as if they suddenly descended from above. Hard work and focus, however, are the foundation for a successful future.

Though you possess great verbal skills, your mind tends to see life as pictures rather than in words. You have the ability to think abstractly.

Creativity is a sensitive faculty that is often suppressed in childhood. If you lack the confidence to pursue your ideas, you may divert your abilities into a scattering of trivial pursuits. To overcome this problem, you must make a choice. You have to limit your field of vision and the number of activities you engage in and bundle your energies into a single thrust. Focus your life; choose the area that you love the most and commit. There, you will find success. And a great deal of happiness.

Love, romance, and money are within your reach. You are aided by your friends and admirers. Often people appear out of nowhere to help you in key situations. John, you have to learn to accept the involvement of others in your life. You are not a loner, nor are you particularly independent. You are social -- you need an audience and the support of others to fully realize your abilities.

On the down-side, you can be superficial, moody, and intolerant. You are emotional and sensitive, sometimes presuming criticism where none was intended. You can also be jealous and gossipy. Beware of becoming cynical and sarcastic. These traits can suppress your natural creativity. Be goal-oriented. This is a practical, step-by-step approach to your larger ambitions. You possess the natural abilities to attain a high degree of excellence.

How Your Expression Numbers Compare

More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number reflects who you are as a whole person on a deep level (rather than the "face" you show to the world, described by your Personality number).

It cannot be over-emphasized how important it is to recognize that the same number in a different area of your chart will affect you differently. There may be times you read something that seems to directly contradict an earlier statement. Yet, if you take time to carefully think about the opposing information you might recognize that, being the complex individual you are, you carry the same contradictions. This is natural and true for all of us. You may excel at organization in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another. You may be tactful and sensitive in one setting, but direct and confrontational in another.

Be aware that it is more difficult to overcome negative traits you recognize in yourself when they are found in this part of the chart, than when they are found under the Life Path description.


John and Jane, your Expression Compatibility is 8 and 3


John and Jane, the 3 and the 8 carry quite different traits which are compatible in some areas but not in others. Jane (the 3) brings a creative, inspiring, uplifting and somewhat scattered energy. John (the 8) is more ambitious, goal-oriented and focused. Although you take differing approaches, you are both energetic and capable of turning dreams into reality. Quite often, this combination is seen between business partners or long-time friends who start a business together. In that environment, Jane would be the initial creative source, while John would be the visionary. Together, you could do very well.

You are both good communicators. Jane can clarify an issue with a sense of humor and pinpoint precision, and John takes a more practical approach by taking bold, decisive action. This part of your chart suggests you complement each other in many ways and are quite compatible. But, just as in any other number combination, there are areas where challenges may arise.

John is ambitious, practical, dedicated to accomplishing their goal, and capable of sustained effort for an extended period. Jane also has the energy and drive needed to make things happen but tends to drop a project when it is no longer interesting or when another project seems more important. This could irritate John, who feels that anything less than total commitment to a set goal is unacceptable. Jane, on the other hand, will sometimes feel that John's priorities are too connected to their own needs and expectations. Where John is focused and demanding, Jane is more easy-going. John believes the purpose for setting a goal is to overcome the obstacles one is bound to encounter. Jane feels comfortable trying something new (or scrapping the project) if the first or second attempt does not seem to be working.

Often, the 3 and the 8 get along quite well. In the end, the issue comes down to respect. You likely have such different views about what is important in life, you will need to accept each other's needs and expectations.

THE HEART'S DESIRE (A.K.A. SOUL URGE)

The Expression number described above points to a more productive side of your life. Your Heart's Desire, also called Soul Urge number, reflects a deeper, inner you; it suggests an underlying urge, your true motivation, and the general intention behind many of your actions. It reveals the environment and lifestyle you prefer, as well as your likes, dislikes, and the type of people you are drawn to. Consequently, it dramatically influences the choices you make in life.

It makes sense that the vowels of your name are the foundation for your Heart's Desire. Vowels are the peaks and valleys of a language. Notice how vowels leave your mouth in a free-flowing breath. Try it: Aaaa.... Eeee.... Oooo.. Consonants though, are cut off either at the beginning or in the end.

You might say that it is in the flow of your breath that you express your deeper self.


John, your Heart's Desire number is 8


You want success in its fullest meaning: wealth, power, and material comforts. You have an enormous ambition. You dream of big projects, great undertakings, and rewards. You are a visionary. You see the horizon and the promise.

In general, you also see the methods necessary to fulfill that promise. But you are not especially good with details; you need others to help you deal with the smaller parts of the picture.

Your challenge is to make full use of the full spectrum of your abilities, as indicated by your other core numbers. In the same way, you must bring forth the best from others and orchestrate their talents toward the realization of your vision. In short, you must lead by example, demonstrating the standard for commitment, determination, and excellence.

All of this requires effort on your part. You will meet with obstacles and difficulties. Your determination and commitment will be tested. But you have the power to overcome every obstacle you face and accomplish the goal you've set for yourself.

Your task in life is to learn to use power in refined and elevated ways. The expression and use of power are directly related to one's personal evolution. The more primitive uses of power rest with violence and the threat of deprivation. The higher expressions depend upon your capacity to care for and nourish the people and projects in your charge, giving each exactly what is needed at the appropriate time and in appropriate amounts.

You have a creative mind and an unusual approach to business and problem-solving. You need to cultivate your ability to evaluate others. It is essential for you to be involved in a project that challenges you and offers the potential for rewards. When you are uninvolved or unoccupied with a worthwhile task, you can become deeply despondent, depressed, and frustrated. You are the perfect example of the old platitude, "Idle hands are the devil's workshop."

Without a challenge, you can lose balance in life and become selfish, cruel, and even self-destructive. Disappointments become shattering, causing terrible consequences in self-image and self-love. Perspective is everything for you. You have a natural talent for balancing the spiritual and material planes.

You need to cultivate courage and stamina. Courage is a choice. You need to decide to be brave in the face of fear. A balanced 8 is among the most powerful and satisfying of numbers. It is the spirit of the true survivor, able to bounce back and achieve a greater victory.

Jane, your Heart's Desire number is 7


You love knowledge, study, and insight. You value the gifts of your mind, which you use to great advantage to penetrate the mysteries of life. You study things in-depth. You search beneath the surface of things. You abhor shallow judgments or opinions.

You have a natural gift for analysis and research. Once you have grasped the facts of a subject, your creativity and abstract approach lifts your thinking beyond the rudimentary to the philosophical. You have a theoretical mind, but rather than indulge in fantasies or idle thought, you prefer to base your theories upon scientific facts. You enjoy mental and physical puzzles -- figuring them out, taking them apart, and putting them back together.

Some people may perceive you as cool or aloof. You are somewhat introverted; you may feel slightly removed and even a little different. The fantasy of the hermit or monk engaged in a life of study and meditation appeals to you.

In relationships, you tend to keep things business-like and impersonal. You prefer to talk about the facts of a given situation, rather than the cloudier issues of emotions and personal feelings. You distrust feelings -- both your own and those of others. The whole emotional realm strikes you as unreliable, and a bit unnecessary. Your inability to fully understand the emotional aspect of life is your Achilles heel. You are so rational that the unpredictability of the heart frightens and surprises you.

Your challenge is to trust. You need to share your heart with someone. This is a courageous step for you but will result in enormous growth and satisfaction.

The advice here is to make a true connection with another human being. Without it, you may marry out of convenience or to fulfill social expectations, but it will not lead you out of loneliness. The more removed you are from people, the more you risk isolation, bitterness, and a cynical attitude toward life. This choice represents a true crossroads in your development. By sharing yourself with others (without compromising your independence and need for privacy) you can cultivate your enormous charm and share your understanding of life. You are a natural teacher and advisor. And the wealth of knowledge you will accumulate in life is meant to be shared with others.

This is not to say that you must compromise on your need for privacy or time spent alone to contemplate life. These are natural aspects of your personality, which are essential to your growth. These characteristics should not be threatening to your spouse but must be understood as fundamental to your being.

You are blessed with a great reserve of intuition, which can be cultivated by regular meditation and contemplation. Your "inner voice" is your greatest guide and friend. You are idealistic and have high expectations for yourself. Learn to balance your serious nature with regular doses of fun. Your intelligence and cultivation make you charming and distinguished in appearance. As you get older and more comfortable with your identity, people are naturally attracted to you. They see your wisdom, your deep understanding of life, and the refinement you radiate.

How Your Heart's Desire Numbers Compare

Compatibility of the Heart's Desire number is very important in a relationship. Few relationships last beyond the initial stage if these numbers are not harmonious.


John and Jane, your Heart's Desire Compatibility is 8 and 7


John and Jane, this combination indicates your relationship is most likely supported by other numbers and influences in your chart, rather than the 7 and 8 found in this area. The 7 and 8 are usually not attracted to each other or particularly compatible in romantic relationships. The notion that opposites attract does not often hold true here.

This does not mean you cannot have a fulfilling, well-suited relationship, but simply that other numbers in your chart are likely the source of your mutual attraction. Carrying the 7 and the 8 in this location of your chart, however, suggests you have major differences that could cause problems.

Your priorities differ. This aspect of the chart tells us John (the 8) has a strong drive for financial success and security. For Jane, spiritual and intellectual growth is a higher priority. John intuitively understands the balance between the material and intangible, which is the reason they excel in business, marketing, or sales. (One must be somewhat detached from material gain to have the vision and clarity it takes to successfully pursue a goal.) Jane moves in the inner realms, and is not intrinsically drawn to business, even deeming it unworthy of attention; they would rather discuss political, philosophical, or spiritual matters, with a preference for the abstract - issues that could seem boring to John who prefers a practical, down-to-earth approach that focuses on results.

Similarly, you could find yourselves at opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to likes and dislikes, from movies to books, travel to housing, decorating, art, and so forth. Jane might enjoy living in a rather isolated, cozy, country home, while John would be happy in a futuristic loft in a large metropolis. The friends you attract will also be quite different. The 7 in Jane's chart points to quiet conversations rather than loud parties. John occasionally enjoys an energetic environment and interaction with others.

The potential lack of compatibility between these numbers has nothing to do with the heart. It generally involves practical preferences such as where to live, how to decorate the house, and who you become friends with. This can be overcome by allowing each other considerable space and freedom in the way you live your lives. You will both need to recognize and accept your differences. Keep in mind there are influences in other areas of your chart that may mitigate some of these contrasts. If so, focus on the things you both enjoy, then allow one another the freedom to express your individuality.

THE PERSONALITY


The consonants of your full name at birth are the foundation of your Personality number, which is a little like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your true nature. It's the outer layer of your personality, the part you feel comfortable sharing. With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper aspects of your nature.

Your Personality number serves as a censoring device in terms of what you send out, as well as whom and what you allow to approach. For this reason, your Personality is usually narrower and more protective in its definition than the real you. It also gives an indication of how others perceive you.


John, your Personality number is 9


You have an impressive and aristocratic bearing. No matter how tall you are, you appear noble and upright. You are very much in control of the image you send out to others. Many actors, dancers, and other performers have a 9 Personality Number.

You are elegant, graceful, and charismatic. Many admire you. You have the kind of stature that pulls people to you or repels them intensely. Some are jealous of you and may seek to belittle you. You may encourage this to some extent by the amount of arrogance you radiate. This is a caution for all 9 Personalities -- they are sometimes aloof and hold themselves above the world. Your challenge is to come down to earth with your fellow man.

Conversely, you have a great compassion for humanity and want to dedicate yourself to improving the lot of others. You are better when dealing with the trials of the many than the trouble of a single person. You are more capable of working on the grand scale, addressing the needs of society, than on a one-to-one basis.

You are kind and sympathetic, helpful and compassionate. Behind the controlled and calm facade, you are sensitive, vulnerable and emotional.

You have excellent taste. There is a good deal of artistic talent in you that shows in your home environment and your clothing. You tend to see yourself as a guardian of society, a benevolent leader, guiding and directing your community toward a better world.

Jane, your Personality number is 5


You are a stimulating person. You brighten social gatherings with your fresh and original ideas. Your conversation tends to be sprinkled with novelty and wit. You have a quick tongue and charisma. You are probably an excellent salesman. There is a lot of nervous energy within you looking for an outlet. You love your freedom and you see this life as an ongoing adventure. You are upbeat and optimistic. This is infectious for those you meet. As a result, you inspire others. You have a strong and attractive body, with good muscle tone. Your movements are supple, graceful, and athletic.

Your bane is that you love to indulge your senses with food and drink and can easily gain weight. You have an appetite for anything that stimulates the senses -- sex, food, alcohol, and drugs. Discipline is a necessity for you. The negative side of a 5 Personality Number can give rise to an addictive personality.

You like to dress fashionably and can get away with more colorful clothes. However, you should be aware of the value of quality and the power of modesty.

You are a little irresponsible and quick in satisfying your sensual urges. You are attractive and that, coupled with your innate ability to promote yourself, makes it easy for you to satisfy your desire for new and exciting relationships. You have a kind of swashbuckling personality. People see you as the adventurer that you are. They expect the unexpected from you, and when they don't you often surprise them.

You have a quick and eclectic mind. You attract information from all directions, but you can be a bit superficial, skimming over the surface of a wide diversity of subjects. This may cause you to be a bit of a dilettante. You can get away with it much of the time, but for your own success and happiness, you should try to ground knowledge and deepen your understanding.

Your versatility and adaptability make you capable of getting the most out of virtually every opportunity in life. You decide quickly on a course of action and your timing is usually good. You radiate with the potential for success, which attracts others who can further you along your path.

How Your Personality Numbers Compare

Your Personality is the first aspect people notice when you first meet. Very few relationships have a chance to progress if their Personality numbers are not compatible.


John and Jane, your Personality Compatibility is 9 and 5


John and Jane, your numbers normally have virtually nothing in common. If you witnessed a social event, you would never see the 5 and the 9 hanging out talking and laughing. Their interests and approaches are so far apart they would have a tough time carrying on a conversation, much less enjoying it.
They do not dislike each other; they just mix like oil and water.
Although the numbers found in this area of the chart do not seem to be responsible for the attraction between you, there are other areas where you may fit well. The fact that you have a relationship (assuming you are not just in the initial stages of seeing how you feel about someone) indicates numbers and influences in other areas of the chart sustain your relationship.

Jane (the 5), the adventurous, dynamic, and freedom-loving spirit reflected in this part of your chart will sometimes be annoying and perceived as irresponsible by John. John, your idealism, sense of duty to humanity, and desire to "make a difference" in the world, might appear superficial to Jane (who can be skeptical). Although there is not much to be done about these differing outlooks, the relationship between a 5 and a 9 is far from doomed. Other aspects of your personalities are strongly connected and compatible, otherwise you would not have a relationship at all. Your challenge is to minimize the lack of compatibility in this aspect of the chart.

For John, it is important to recognize that idealism, self-righteousness, duty, and responsibility will only impress Jane if you do not take credit for your actions. Jane distrusts idealism but admires results. Without limiting yourself, you will need to accept that you are on your own when it comes to following your heart in these areas. Similarly, Jane, in John's eyes you sometimes appear shallow or selfish; your energetic, adventurous need for experience without too much analysis is foreign to them.

You will need to compromise and be diplomatic when it comes to these issues. You likely have room to explore and share in other areas of your life. Look for aspects in your chart that describe more compatible traits and focus on them.

MATURITY NUMBER

Your Maturity number indicates an underlying wish or desire that gradually surfaces at around age 30 to 35. A direction begins to emerge as you gain a better understanding of yourself. With this self-knowledge comes a greater awareness of who you are, and the direction you want to set for your life.


John, your Maturity number is 1


As you mature, you will find yourself needing an increasing amount of independence and individuality. You will fight harder for the recognition and rewards you feel you deserve and will be less willing to accept failure or limitations in any form. John, your drive and determination will grow as does your ability to take charge.

If there are already several 1s in your chart, especially among the core numbers, you will have to strive to avoid becoming bossy, rigid, stubborn and selfish. A person who allows these characteristics to run free will become bullish and lonely later in life. If there are not many 1s in your chart, the influence of the Maturity Number will help you to establish your independence and success. From this foundation, you will have an active, adventurous, and exciting latter part of life.

Jane, your Maturity number is 1



Jane, your Maturity is also a 1; the same as John’s



How Your Maturity Numbers Compare

Your Maturity number becomes more dominant with age. The texts below become increasingly important after about age 40.


John and Jane, your Maturity Compatibility is 1 and 1


John and Jane, you make up a challenging and rare combination. Although most couples continue to look for things they have in common, in your case this might not always translate into an advantage. Yours is a relationship of extremes, with powerful feelings and sometimes almost uncontrollable urges to confront each other.

You are both headstrong, competitive people who do not like to play second fiddle. You are unlikely to surrender your accustomed place at the top even to someone to whom you are attracted. When both people have a 1 in this area of the chart, there may not be much room left for attraction. Your competitive natures are likely to interfere with a giving, cooperative relationship. Your reading suggests you both feel the need to be "king of the mountain" and like two bulls, will butt heads to gain the upper hand.

However, when two people with dynamic drives can set aside their competitive natures (due to a mutually powerful attraction) the relationship can be promising and exciting.

With this combination it is important to look for compatible aspects in your charts to understand where complementary traits can positively support your relationship.

If your relationship has existed for some time, you have obviously found ways to get around the challenges of your two equally strong and individualistic personalities. If the relationship is relatively new, you will both need to accept taking second place (occasionally) and become practiced in humility and sensitivity.

Try to keep verbal arguments from escalating. Both of you are capable of confrontation when the need arises, and you carry the potential for aggression. Work on taking a breath, stepping back, and thinking twice before saying something you might later regret.