
About Your Relationship Profile
This report analyzes the personalities of both individuals to assess their compatibility. It also offers suggestions for ways to mitigate the stress or damage that can come from differing personalities and perspectives.
When you are in a relationship, you come to know each other more deeply over time. At first friction is rare. As time goes by and you discover additional sides to your partner, you become aware of personality traits you appreciate as well as some that rub you the wrong way. Even if you consider your relationship nearly perfect, you will experience occasional bouts of conflict.
Negative traits are almost always a cause of friction, but it is interesting to note that some qualities that are considered positive can also be incompatible. You may find this report is more critical or even harsh compared to other readings of this type. My approach is designed to throw light on differences in your chart that might benefit from a frank, unbiased examination. Ignoring potential issues can cause more damage overall than a few honest remarks in a reading.
You will probably encounter some texts that state: "The compatibility aspect in this area of the chart is already included in other parts of this report." Those texts are not repeated here because they are either redundant or offset by other conditions. This is done to offer a perspective that is as well balanced and clear as possible; repeating certain traits would place too much emphasis on them.
Dave and Mike, I hope you will appreciate the perspective of your Compatibility Report and will find it beneficial to your relationship.
Please note we use gender-neutral language when addressing individuals in our relationship readings. To some, using the singular "they," "them," and "their" may sound awkward, but we believe words matter. We aspire to include everyone.
Please verify that the name and date of birth showing below are accurate.
Your Life Path number is considered the single most significant information available in your Personality Chart. It is derived from the total of all numbers found in your date of birth. However, it is important to keep in mind that the aspects described in the next few chapters will either complement, supplement, or sometimes weaken the attributes revealed in numbers derived from your name.
Dave, your Life Path number is 1

Dave, you are a born leader. You insist on your right to make up your own mind; you demand freedom of thought and action. You are driven and determent. You don't let anything, or anyone stand in your way once you are committed to your goal. You assume the responsibility to be the protector and provider for those you love. You demand respect and attention and become irritated and even domineering when important things do not go your way. You need to feel in command of important undertakings and resist supportive roles. You seek the forefront and the limelight. You are concerned with your status and foster the appearance of success and self-satisfaction. The need to appear well off propels you to strive for growth, success and the finer things of life.
You are exceptionally creative and original and possess a touch of the unusual. Your approach to problems is unique and you have the courage to wander from the beaten path. You can be impatient with your shortcomings and those of others.
You should watch out for selfishness, conceit and the over-concern with appearance. You must guard against overzealous behavior, anger and aggressiveness. If these qualities are not brought under control you could become excessively domineering, vindictive and even violent. You perform best when you are left to your own devices. Ideally you should own your own business and be your own boss. Hold fast to your life's dream and work with the determination you possess to realize it.
You can become overly stressed by your driven nature. Be careful about the food you eat and maintain an exercise program you enjoy. Competition sports are often a healthy outlet for a person with your drive, particularly sports involving running and swimming. Don't let pride and overconfidence be your masters. Remember, your talents and abilities are a gift from a higher source, which should promote gratitude and humility, rather than pride and conceit.
More often than not a person with a 1 Life Path will achieve much in life as long as the drive, creativity, originality and pioneering spirit are fully employed!
Mike, your Life Path number is 2

The key word in your nature is peacemaker. Mike, you have the soul of an artist. You are extremely sensitive, perceptive, and a bit shy. These qualities are both your strengths and weaknesses, for while you possess enormous sensitivity to your feelings and those of others, that same sensitivity can cause you to hold back and repress your considerable talents. Sensitivity and perceptiveness are among your many fine qualities.
Because you intuitively know what people want, or feel, you can be extremely diplomatic and tactful. You are also patient and cooperative. You work well with groups and somehow find a way of creating harmony among diverse opinions.
You enjoy music and poetry and require a harmonious environment. You have an eye for beauty and a fine sense of balance and rhythm. You have healing capabilities, especially in such fields as massage, acupuncture, physical therapy, and counseling. However, your sensitivity can also be your downfall.
Your delicate ego bruises easily and can make too much of someone else's thoughtless remarks or criticisms. Because you get hurt easily, you may tend to withhold your own thoughts and contributions to the matter at hand. This can cause you considerable resentment and anger. Too often, you run from confrontation to avoid a battle.
When you employ your considerable inner strength, you will discover your enormous power and abilities to direct difficult situations toward your own goals. It is the awareness of your inner strength that will give you the courage to use your own personal power when it is needed. You are a sensitive and passionate lover; your perceptiveness makes you aware of your partner's needs and desires, which you are able to fulfill with almost magical delicacy.
However, when you feel you have been mistreated or jilted, you can react with devastating power, sometimes using personal criticisms vindictively. Your awareness, diplomatic skills, and organizational talents give you the ability to bring off difficult tasks. You willingly step out of the limelight to facilitate the success of your endeavor. In truth, you are often the power behind the throne. However, you do not always receive the credit you deserve for the fine work you've done, or your role is underestimated, and your accomplishments overlooked.
Rather than brood over your losses, you need to confront those who would make less of your contributions and stand up for your accomplishments. You need security and comfort, quiet settings, and the company of loved ones. You are a perfectionist when it comes to your home and work environment.
You have excellent taste which is obvious in your private surroundings. You are a fine companion and possess a good sense of humor. Friends seek you out for your calming and peaceful company. You are a safe haven to other sensitive people, who recognize your compassion and understanding. When you have found your niche in life, you have all the talents and intelligence for great success. Seek out work that allows your sensitive nature to flourish -- be the glue that binds others together.
Your Life Path number is the most important influence in your chart. As such, their compatibility is very important to the well being of your relationship.
Dave and Mike, your Life Path Compatibility is 1 and 2
Dave and Mike, you have a very promising combination although, interestingly, you have little in common in this aspect of the chart. The core numbers show Dave to be strong, driven, competitive, motivated, and perhaps somewhat domineering. Mike is by nature more the "power behind the throne", a more patient person who keeps the bigger picture in mind.
Sensitive, intuitive, insightful, and supportive, they will (usually) allow Dave to assume the more assertive role, while unobtrusively making sure the job gets done. The fact that you do not vie for power is key in this relationship. Both of you know your wants and needs and, in your own way, can express them to each other. Being comfortable in the roles you have chosen helps you to complement each other well.
Mike is the peacemaker, Dave the driving, ambitious force. However, it is important to look at other compatible aspects in your number combination to keep this in perspective. Dave needs to be careful with Mike's sensitive nature. Their strength is like a strong stick - it will not break easily and is not concerned about getting damaged. Mike's strength is more flexible, but also more vulnerable; they will surrender more easily but are also more sensitive to harsh words and criticism. Dave can shrug off judgment from others without much damage to their ego. Interestingly, it is precisely because Mike can bend with the breeze that they are likely to be the survivor if a serious storm hits, whereas, if the wind is strong enough, Dave's strength may snap.
In this aspect of the chart, the key to a healthy relationship is mutual respect and sincerity. Dave needs to understand that Mike's willingness to compromise or surrender does not indicate weakness or an indecisive nature. You should also be aware that Mike is not easily fooled. Although Mike may accept an explanation or situation without confrontation, it is due to their insight and perspective rather than cowardice. Mike may recognize insincerity and dishonestly more quickly than Dave and should not be underestimated. And Mike should keep in mind that showing strength and bravado does not mean that Dave is not susceptible to hurt feelings. In fact, behind that facade of strength and courage is someone who experiences matters of the heart very deeply.
Your Expression number, calculated from your full name at birth, reveals the orientation or goal of your life. Some numerologists refer to this as your Destiny number because it represents a lifelong target at which you are aiming. Thus, the Expression number, to some extent, reveals the person you aim to be.
Your Expression is the most influential of the three characteristics that make up who you are. It is also the number with the most influence on your choice of career, although other aspects are important as well.
Dave, your Expression is 7

You are gifted with an analytical mind and an enormous appetite for the answers to life's hidden questions. You have a strong interest in exploring scientific matters, philosophy, and even mysticism. You possess clarity and persistence in your search for truth. You can be a great researcher, educator, and philosopher. You are driven by a desire for knowledge and truth. You must learn to discriminate between illusion and reality, but you are well equipped for this task. Your fine mind offers insight into the veiled mysteries of life. You also possess a considerable amount of perspective. Somewhere inside you, you are aware of a peaceful place that you call upon during difficult times.
You need time to be by yourself. Too much social interaction causes you stress. You need your privacy and a place that can be shut off from the hustle and bustle of life. You tend to keep your thoughts to yourself and are secretive. Unless your 7 expression is balanced by extrovert characteristics (usually revealed by the numbers 1, 3, 5, and 8), your introversion may pull you deeply within yourself, even cutting you off from others.
You have a strong dislike of the superficial and mundane. You are often surprised by the lack of understanding or depth of knowledge of others, many of whom do not take the search for knowledge as seriously as you do. This can cause you to be critical of others, and even cynical about life in general. The more cut off from others you become, the more hidden are your motives. Once you develop understanding of people and life, your advice and counsel will be sought by those around you who need your wisdom.
You love to specialize your knowledge and develop great depth within your field. You are a perfectionist. You should complete your studies early in life and not be driven too hard by a desire to be successful. Let things come at their own pace, be open to opportunity, but remember your rewards, satisfaction, and contentment come from a higher source.
Sevens can be distant and aloof. When dominated by their darker characteristics, they can be unfaithful, dishonest, and cruel. Contemplation, meditation, and the softer, finer vibrations of life can restore your sense of harmony and keep you on the path to peace and balance.
You have a logical mind. Your analytical skills cause you to approach a problem in a detached, surgical kind of way. Researchers, analysts, investigators, inventors, technicians, scholars, lawyers, bankers, watchmakers, priests, philosophers, theologians, and administrators in some scientific or technical field are among the vocations 7s are drawn to.
Mike, your Expression is 5

You are a free spirit. You love change, adventure, and excitement. You love your freedom. Like a bird that needs its wings to live, you cannot exist without it. Freedom is the nucleus around which your life revolves. You need it for your very survival. By using freedom properly, you are able to explore and develop all of your varied talents. You will meet many types of people and travel great distances. Freedom is the atmosphere necessary for you to bring forth your many talents.
You are capable of doing almost anything, and probably quite well. Only by avoiding the imprisonment of illusory security are you able to bring forth your abilities.
You are unusually adaptable. In fact, change is a blessing for you. In the same way, you need challenge and variety. You hate the routine of life; being stuck is a catastrophe for you. You become miserable when you are held back or held down. The taste and texture and color of life have an overpowering allure for you. From childhood, you dream of seeing foreign lands, experiencing the sensual and the exotic. You want to try everything at least once in life. All of life is a playground for your senses.
But this can get you into trouble. You may fail to respect your natural limits, either biologically or socially. Any boundary is anathema to you, which can blind you to your natural limits, and may cause you to overindulge your desire for food, sweets, alcohol, sex, and drugs.
You are gifted in your ability to communicate. Your facility with words is almost limitless. You can be a salesman, politician, lawyer, public relations person, and minister. You also possess the talent to share and advance new ideas. You are talented with your hands. You love the new and untried. Your field is the frontier. You are a bit of a gambler and often play for very high stakes. All of this combines to give you a youthful enthusiasm, which others find infectious and attractive. You like to work with others but need to perform your task unencumbered by the restraints of others.
You are a clever and a quick thinker, but your thought processes -- like your life in general -- can be unorganized and scattered. You must stay grounded and focused if you want to be successful.
You fall in and out of love frequently, especially early in life. You are naturally sensual and commonly have a strong sex drive. These characteristics usually make for a lively and exciting love life, but you must guard against shallow feelings and relationships. Your challenge is to develop mature and lasting relationships. Self-discipline and setting healthy limits are the key to your success in virtually every area of your life.
Ironically, you will find that as you learn to set appropriate limits on yourself, you develop more self- mastery and realize even greater freedom. This is especially true when it comes to finishing what you start. Your tendency is to give up once you've got a project or job under control; you grow bored quickly. You start to fantasize about a new challenge, or the rewards of your great accomplishment, long before the work is finished.
The 5 Expression desires the whole world. You are aware that you have many talents that can bring much success. But that success depends on your willingness to choose certain areas to concentrate on, and to bring them to perfection.
More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number reflects who you are as a whole person on a deep level (rather than the "face" you show to the world, described by your Personality number).
It cannot be over-emphasized how important it is to recognize that the same number in a different area of your chart will affect you differently. There may be times you read something that seems to directly contradict an earlier statement. Yet, if you take time to carefully think about the opposing information you might recognize that, being the complex individual you are, you carry the same contradictions. This is natural and true for all of us. You may excel at organization in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another. You may be tactful and sensitive in one setting, but direct and confrontational in another.
Be aware that it is more difficult to overcome negative traits you recognize in yourself when they are found in this part of the chart, than when they are found under the Life Path description.
Dave and Mike, your Expression Compatibility is 7 and 5
Dave and Mike, this is one of the best combinations for a long-lasting relationship, and a merging of archetypes that promises intellectual and inner growth for both of you. The 5 (Mike) and the 7 (Dave) fulfill one another's needs and desires in many ways, but particularly on the mental and spiritual planes. Many famous intellectual and artistic couples share this combination. This is a partnership that is larger and more promising than the sum of its parts.
Mike has a quick and flexible mind spiced with a wicked, offbeat sense of humor. Neuro-specialists have suggested that over time, the mind begins to think according to repetitive patterns it develops, like water running through a canyon. This may be the case for many people, but not for those who have a 5 in this position of the chart. A 5 will never allow their mind to shelter repetitive, predictable patterns. Thanks to Mike's ability to juggle ideas and concepts, they seem younger and remain more playful and quick-witted long past the time others of a similar age have slowed down.
Dave's mind is also powerful; however, their mental and spiritual faculties operate very differently from Mike's. Dave has a dry sense of humor and a more serious mind; they seek answers to life's important questions and often spends time in contemplation searching for insight and understanding. It is likely Dave is not strongly associated with an organized religion but has nonetheless a strong sense of the reality of the "God force". For them, the mystery of life is not an unattainable or abstract concept - it is a reality. The 7 is the most spiritual and intellectual of all numbers, but it is rarely found among those with traditional mindsets; the 7 asks too many questions to take things at face value.
The only real source of discord that appears between the 5 and 7 is spiritual in nature. Dave may feel Mike's dynamic, social nature is too flamboyant or superficial at times. Mike might feel Dave becomes too invested in spiritual concepts, even that they are somewhat of a zealot. It is probably difficult for Mike to understand how people can become so invested in abstract concepts and philosophies. And Dave may find it difficult to accept that Mike believes experiencing life is more important than analyzing it.
Fortunately, the 7 and the 5 have such a positive influence on each other, these differing outlooks rarely create problems. Mike keeps Dave flexible and able to enjoy life from a simpler, more direct perspective, and Dave demonstrates how a deep, serious search for understanding can be immensely gratifying.
The Expression number described above points to a more productive side of your life. Your Heart's Desire reflects a deeper, inner you; it suggests an underlying urge, your true motivation, and the general intention behind many of your actions. It reveals the environment and lifestyle you prefer, as well as your likes, dislikes, and the type of people you are drawn to. Consequently, it dramatically influences the choices you make in life.
It makes sense that the vowels of your name are the foundation for your Heart's Desire. Vowels are the peaks and valleys of a language. Notice how vowels leave your mouth in a free-flowing breath. Try it: Aaaa.... Eeee.... Oooo.. Consonants though, are cut off either at the beginning or in the end.
You might say that it is in the flow of your breath that you express your deeper self.
Dave, your Heart's Desire number is 3

You love a good time. You are generally happy, friendly, and outgoing. You have a gift for gab. You are very witty, creative, and playful. You inspire and entertain people. You are considered by many a great companion. Many outstanding comedians have this Heart's Desire. You have a good mental and emotional balance and there is little that gets you down.
You have a gift for self-expression and are drawn to the verbal arts -- writing, acting, singing, and poetry. You may have a great talent in one of these areas. If your creativity is blocked or suppressed, you tend to daydream and fantasize. Your imagination needs a constructive outlet; otherwise, it may run away with you.
At the same time, you may have great difficulty expressing your deeper feelings and important personal thoughts. You prefer to stay on the surface, entertaining people with your wit. If you fail to deal honestly with your inner nature, you may succumb to compulsive talking. Such behavior may be merely a way of siphoning off emotional energy that is building beneath your surface. Your deeply felt emotional life cannot be avoided or suppressed. But you possess the talent to channel these feelings into highly creative and artistic form. Art and self-expression are your outlets.
You need discipline to make full use of your abilities. Too often, you may scatter your energies in many directions, beginning projects that are never finished and never really succeeding in anything. Your success depends on your ability to commit to your work and to see it through to completion. You have so much creativity and inspiring upward energy that you are in desperate need of an anchor. Hard work and discipline serve this purpose and bring out the best in you.
Because you are gifted with such a sparkling personality, you are tempted to stay on the surface and play with life. You are confident and love the attention others give you, but these characteristics can lead to vanity and self-absorption.
You have the potential to live a very full and successful life thanks to your talent for artistic self-expression. The key to your success is a balance between the creative forces and self-disclose.
Mike, your Heart's Desire number is 6

Your attention is directed to helping and caring for those you love. You are exceedingly domestic. You love your home and family and work hard to make both comfortable and secure. Your love for family and friends is a major source of your happiness and sometimes unhappiness. Your desire to help others is so strong that you often find yourself sacrificing your own personal needs for someone else's. You can overdo it, becoming too deeply involved in other people's lives. You risk interfering in personal matters and or smothering those you love in too much affection. This can be especially weakening to children, who never experience their own personal strength if an adult is too protective.
You are extremely loyal and rarely let anyone down. You need to feel appreciation for your giving and caring. You want to know that you are needed. You are generous and very forgiving. You are somehow able to overlook the worst mistakes in another and find enough good in that person to continue the relationship. You are patient, warm, and sympathetic, sometimes to the point of sentimentality.
You have a natural ability as a counselor and healer. You are an excellent listener, compassionate and understanding. You can both sympathize and empathize with a person's dilemma. Your challenge as a counselor is to be adequately educated so that you can do more than provide a sympathetic ear or shoulder.
You possess a great deal of artistic talent, though you may not have a lot of confidence in your ability. Art gives you a great deal of pleasure and satisfaction. You are especially sensitive to your environment and have a knack for creating an artistic, healing, and harmonious atmosphere in your home or work space.
Your deepest intention is to love those around you and be loved in return. Six is the most loving of all numbers, especially in one-to-one relationships. Your instincts are toward your family and friends. You envision a beautiful and harmonious life with love as the basis for all social interaction. Your love is returned manifold; people appreciate you and the love you give and are willing to go to great lengths to keep you close at hand.
Compatibility of the Heart's Desire number is very important in a relationship. Few relationships last beyond the initial stage if these numbers are not harmonious.
Dave and Mike, your Heart's Desire Compatibility is 3 and 6
Dave and Mike, you are clearly a creative couple. Dave has the type of creative energy and sense of humor everyone enjoys, and Mike emanates the warmth and self-sacrificing love that easily wins the hearts of family and friends. You are likely a popular couple with an active social life and a large circle of friends.
Mike, the number 6 lends you the natural ability to draw loyalty and devotion from others that will last a lifetime. The 6 is often called the motherhood or fatherhood, number. Healing and comforting are second nature to you, and you will gift it unconditionally and indiscriminately.
Dave, your number 3 is also a very giving and popular number - more playful and creative than the 6, but less grounded and disciplined. Your energy is more impulsive. Unlike your partner, you probably do not have much patience for emotional issues. You can be a great shoulder for people to cry on if it does not take more than about two minutes. This is mainly due to your naturally optimistic and lighthearted nature, which leads you to expect the same resilient response to difficulty from others. This could make you less responsive to Mike's need to share things on a deeper level.
Both of you will need to accept your differing perspectives and the approach you take to sensitive matters. Dave, recognize that Mike is more easily affected by matters of the heart than you feel is sensible. And Mike try not to be wounded by your partner's light-hearted demeanor; it does not, necessarily, convey disinterest.
Surprisingly, however, the most common pitfall when a 3 and 6 are found in this part of the chart is not the lack of emotional involvement native to 3, but the heightened emotion experienced by the 6. Mike, you tend to become so absorbed with the wellbeing of those you love that they sometimes feel smothered. You want to do everything for everybody. This can irritate Dave since they require space and freedom in the relationship.
My advice: Dave, do your best to be sensitive to the emotional needs of your partner; and Mike, ensure you are giving Dave enough room to move and air to breathe.
The consonants of your full name at birth are the foundation of your Personality number, which is a little like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your true nature. It's the outer layer of your personality, the part you feel comfortable sharing. With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper aspects of your nature.
Your Personality number serves as a censoring device in terms of what you send out, as well as whom and what you allow to approach. For this reason, your Personality is usually narrower and more protective in its definition than the real you. It also gives an indication of how others perceive you.
Dave, your Personality number is 4

You radiate reliability and consistency. People trust you and feel secure with your judgment. You are seen as a cornerstone of a business and are relied upon to do your work efficiently and expertly. You have strength and respectability. You tend to dress in a utilitarian manner, concerned mostly with convention, practicality, durability, and price. You present yourself as someone who values correctness, control, and precision.
All of this stems from the fact that your most prized characteristic is your work. You want to be judged on the basis of your performance, rather than your appearance. You are frugal and have learned to respect a dollar. You are concerned about the security of your future and those you love. However, this may appear to others as a bit too austere.
You tend to wear earth colors and conventional attire. You could benefit by putting a little flair in your dress. Wear more uplifting colors. Loosen your dress with less severe lines. If you wear a brown suit, include a bright tie or some jewelry.
You are a family person. You love the intimacy, consistency, and the security a family provides. You are a good provider and protector. But family members may take your efforts for granted.
You are a true patriot. You love your country and are an integral part of your community. Your consistency and adherence to your well-laid plans usually pays off in a comfortable and secure future.
Mike, your Personality number is 8

You appear strong and powerful. You have an impressive personality and can influence and even intimidate through sheer force. You have natural authority. Your competence and enthusiasm attract people with resources. You radiate confidence. People defer to you because they sense your sureness and effectiveness. You also exude a kind of controlled benevolence. People sense that you are generous, once you are convinced of the worthiness of the cause.
It is important for you to dress well. You radiate a kind of raw power and able-ness which needs to be refined and enhanced by your clothing. You may even dress a bit flashy, but that will not harm you. Quality is among your highest priorities and should reflect in your clothing. Although most eights have a strong constitution, they can be prone to indigestion, ulcers, and heart disease due to their reckless eating and drinking habits and their propensity to be workaholics.
Your Achilles heel is your capacity for an egocentric attitude. The negative side of your personality can cause you to be ruthless, greedy, and intensely lonely. Conversely, you can be spontaneous and excited. You are essentially warm and jovial. In your heart of hearts, you want everyone to be as excited and as happy as you. Those who are around you often sense this. Your coworkers and employees usually like you.
Your Personality is the first aspect people notice when you first meet. Very few relationships have a chance to progress if their Personality numbers are not compatible.
Dave and Mike, your Personality Compatibility is 4 and 8
This is an excellent combination of numbers for romance as well as business. The 4 and the 8 are like the gears of an engine. They connect perfectly and increase one another's power. By joining forces, they triple or quadruple their output. This is considered the best blend of archetypes for a business partnership. Dave delivers the persistence, determination, dependability, and methodical approach required to reach a set goal, while Mike brings the vision and conviction that no dream is unattainable.
Fortunately, a similar synergy exists for romance as well. Although the 4 and 8 are different in many ways, they respect and recognize each other's value. Together, they create an environment of love, trust, and deep spiritual bonding.
Dave and Mike, although this aspect of your chart reveals an almost perfect combination, dangers do exist (as they do in any combination). At some point, Mike will likely try something that Dave finds outrageous and doomed to fail. Mike's stubborn determination and, at times, authoritarian approach could become a major irritant to Dave.
Dave, if (when) that happens, the best approach is simply to disengage. Communicate your ideas, but do not try too hard to persuade Mike to give up a plan or a goal they believe in. Alternately, Mike will sometimes feel Dave is a stick in the mud who does not dare try something new. In this situation, Mike should recognize this does not signify a lack of courage on Dave's part, but simply that they prefer not to waste time or take risks on something that does not feel realistic. In these situations, feelings of frustration could overshadow the love and respect that is the foundation of your relationship.
Although rare, it is not unheard of for this combination to survive several major breakups and reconciliations, even divorce and re-marriage. All partnerships must compromise, and this is particularly true for your relationship. Sometimes, Dave, even when you know a project is doomed to fail, it might be worthwhile to support it. And Mike, your idea may be valid, but when your partner (or others) express serious doubts about it, you may want to consider that they may be right and examine whether pursuing it is the smart thing to do.
Your Maturity number indicates an underlying wish or desire that gradually surfaces at around age 30 to 35. A direction begins to emerge as you gain a better understanding of yourself. With this self-knowledge comes a greater awareness of who you are, and the direction you want to set for your life.
Dave, your Maturity number is 8

As you mature, you will grow in success and financial reward. You will find yourself deepening your commitment to your work. You will find it easier to overcome difficulties that manifest in your path. Your capacity to use power will grow; you will be recognized as a pillar of influence and dependability within your community. You will have to be strong and self-disciplined to avoid sudden painful material losses. Beware of ego-inflation, the surest symptom of an imminent fall.
The 8 Maturity Number requires a certain degree of detachment from material success; otherwise it will rule your personality and make money an obsession. Detachment allows you to remain focused on the higher values of mankind. One of your important motivations should be a desire to build, create, or market in order to enjoy the game of business.
Your wisdom and sheer common sense are recognized by many and will attract important positions. It is possible that you will be given responsibility for the care and management of another person's property. You may also be asked to guide large institutions.
If you already have several 8s in your chart, especially in the core numbers, you will have to guard against selfishness, accumulation for the sake of status, and greed. If you have few 8s in your chart, or none at all, your opportunity to achieve the success and financial independence is greatly increased.
Mike, your Maturity number is 7

As you mature, you will become increasingly occupied with the larger questions of life, reading, contemplating and searching for a deeper understanding of who you are and what this life is all about. You may turn to philosophy or religion, but will likely examine a wide array of areas, broadening your knowledge in many disciplines.
Your intuition grows stronger, as does your ability to look beneath the surface of every subject you study. You are able to analyze abstract questions and live according to your higher ideals. You may find yourself needing more time alone; your need for privacy will likely increase.
If you already have several sevens in your chart, you will have to guard against becoming withdrawn, and alienated. If you have no sevens, you will now have the ability to deepen your understanding of one particular field. You will have the opportunity to become grounded in a particular area of study.
Your Maturity number becomes more dominant with age. The texts below become increasingly important after about age 40.
Dave and Mike, your Maturity Compatibility is 8 and 7
Dave and Mike, this combination indicates your relationship is most likely supported by other numbers and influences in your chart, rather than the 7 and 8 found in this area. The 7 and 8 are usually not attracted to each other or particularly compatible in romantic relationships. The notion that opposites attract does not often hold true here.
This does not mean you cannot have a fulfilling, well-suited relationship, but simply that other numbers in your chart are likely the source of your mutual attraction. Carrying the 7 and the 8 in this location of your chart, however, suggests you have major differences that could cause problems.
Your priorities differ. This aspect of the chart tells us Dave (the 8) has a strong drive for financial success and security. For Mike, spiritual and intellectual growth is a higher priority. Dave intuitively understands the balance between the material and intangible, which is the reason they excel in business, marketing, or sales. (One must be somewhat detached from material gain to have the vision and clarity it takes to successfully pursue a goal.) Mike moves in the inner realms, and is not intrinsically drawn to business, even deeming it unworthy of attention; they would rather discuss political, philosophical, or spiritual matters, with a preference for the abstract - issues that could seem boring to Dave who prefers a practical, down-to-earth approach that focuses on results.
Similarly, you could find yourselves at opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to likes and dislikes, from movies to books, travel to housing, decorating, art, and so forth. Mike might enjoy living in a rather isolated, cozy, country home, while Dave would be happy in a futuristic loft in a large metropolis. The friends you attract will also be quite different. The 7 in Mike's chart points to quiet conversations rather than loud parties. Dave occasionally enjoys an energetic environment and interaction with others.
The potential lack of compatibility between these numbers has nothing to do with the heart. It generally involves practical preferences such as where to live, how to decorate the house, and who you become friends with. This can be overcome by allowing each other considerable space and freedom in the way you live your lives. You will both need to recognize and accept your differences. Keep in mind there are influences in other areas of your chart that may mitigate some of these contrasts. If so, focus on the things you both enjoy, then allow one another the freedom to express your individuality.