

About Your Relationship Profile
This report analyzes the personalities of both individuals to assess their compatibility. It also offers suggestions for ways to mitigate the stress or damage that can come from differing personalities and perspectives.
When you are in a relationship, you come to know each other more deeply over time. At first friction is rare. As time goes by and you discover additional sides to your partner, you become aware of personality traits you appreciate as well as some that rub you the wrong way. Even if you consider your relationship nearly perfect, you will experience occasional bouts of conflict.
Negative traits are almost always a cause of friction, but it is interesting to note that some qualities that are considered positive can also be incompatible. You may find this report is more critical or even harsh compared to other readings of this type. My approach is designed to throw light on differences in your chart that might benefit from a frank, unbiased examination. Ignoring potential issues can cause more damage overall than a few honest remarks in a reading.
You will probably encounter some texts that state: "The compatibility aspect in this area of the chart is already included in other parts of this report." Those texts are not repeated here because they are either redundant or offset by other conditions. This is done to offer a perspective that is as well balanced and clear as possible; repeating certain traits would place too much emphasis on them.
John and Jane, I hope you will appreciate the perspective of your Compatibility Report and will find it beneficial to your relationship.
Please note we use gender-neutral language when addressing individuals in our relationship readings. To some, using the singular "they," "them," and "their" may sound awkward, but we believe words matter. We aspire to include everyone.
Please verify that the name and date of birth showing below are accurate.
Your Life Path number is considered the single most significant information available in your Personality Chart. It is derived from the total of all numbers found in your date of birth. However, it is important to keep in mind that the aspects described in the next few chapters will either complement, supplement, or sometimes weaken the attributes revealed in numbers derived from your name.
John, your Life Path number is 2

The key word in your nature is peacemaker. John, you have the soul of an artist. You are extremely sensitive, perceptive, and a bit shy. These qualities are both your strengths and weaknesses, for while you possess enormous sensitivity to your feelings and those of others, that same sensitivity can cause you to hold back and repress your considerable talents. Sensitivity and perceptiveness are among your many fine qualities.
Because you intuitively know what people want, or feel, you can be extremely diplomatic and tactful. You are also patient and cooperative. You work well with groups and somehow find a way of creating harmony among diverse opinions.
You enjoy music and poetry and require a harmonious environment. You have an eye for beauty and a fine sense of balance and rhythm. You have healing capabilities, especially in such fields as massage, acupuncture, physical therapy, and counseling. However, your sensitivity can also be your downfall.
Your delicate ego bruises easily and can make too much of someone else's thoughtless remarks or criticisms. Because you get hurt easily, you may tend to withhold your own thoughts and contributions to the matter at hand. This can cause you considerable resentment and anger. Too often, you run from confrontation to avoid a battle.
When you employ your considerable inner strength, you will discover your enormous power and abilities to direct difficult situations toward your own goals. It is the awareness of your inner strength that will give you the courage to use your own personal power when it is needed. You are a sensitive and passionate lover; your perceptiveness makes you aware of your partner's needs and desires, which you are able to fulfill with almost magical delicacy.
However, when you feel you have been mistreated or jilted, you can react with devastating power, sometimes using personal criticisms vindictively. Your awareness, diplomatic skills, and organizational talents give you the ability to bring off difficult tasks. You willingly step out of the limelight to facilitate the success of your endeavor. In truth, you are often the power behind the throne. However, you do not always receive the credit you deserve for the fine work you've done, or your role is underestimated, and your accomplishments overlooked.
Rather than brood over your losses, you need to confront those who would make less of your contributions and stand up for your accomplishments. You need security and comfort, quiet settings, and the company of loved ones. You are a perfectionist when it comes to your home and work environment.
You have excellent taste which is obvious in your private surroundings. You are a fine companion and possess a good sense of humor. Friends seek you out for your calming and peaceful company. You are a safe haven to other sensitive people, who recognize your compassion and understanding. When you have found your niche in life, you have all the talents and intelligence for great success. Seek out work that allows your sensitive nature to flourish -- be the glue that binds others together.
Jane, your Life Path number is 7

You are the searcher and the seeker of the truth. You have a clear and compelling sense of yourself as a spiritual being. As a result, your life path is devoted to investigations into the unknown and finding the answers to the mysteries of life. You are well-equipped to handle your task. You possess a fine mind; you are an analytical thinker, capable of great concentration and theoretical insight. You enjoy research and putting the pieces of an intellectual puzzle together. Once you have enough pieces in place, you are capable of highly creative insight and practical solutions to problems.
You enjoy your solitude and prefer to work alone. You need time to contemplate your ideas without the intrusion of other people's thoughts. You are a lone wolf, a person who lives by his own ideas and methods. As a result, close associations are difficult for you to form and keep, especially marriage. You need your space and privacy, which, when violated, can cause you great frustration and irritation.
When your life is balanced, however, you are both charming and attractive. You can be the life of a party and enjoy performing before an audience. You enjoy displaying your wit and knowledge, which makes you attractive to others, especially the opposite sex. But you have distinct limits. While you are generous in social situations, sharing your attention and energy freely, you are keenly aware of the need to "come off stage" and return to the solitude of your lair. You associate peace with the unobtrusive privacy of your world. Therefore, intimacy is difficult for you, because you guard your inner world like a mother lion does her cubs.
All this privacy and aloneness can cause isolation and loneliness, however. You can be aware of emptiness in your life, a part of you that yearns for company and close companionship that may be unsatisfied. If isolation is brought to the extreme, you can become cynical and suspicious. You can develop hidden, selfish motives, which people may sense and may cause them discomfort around you.
You must guard against becoming too withdrawn and independent, thus shutting out the love of others and keeping you from experiencing the true joy of friendship and close companionship.
You must especially watch out for selfishness and egocentricity, thinking of yourself as the center of the universe, the only person who really matters. Social contact gives perspective on yourself and on life, while too much isolation can make you too narrow and even shut off from the rest of the world. Secretly, you may feel jealous of the easy relationships formed by others; you may perceive others as less inhibited than you, or freer to express themselves. You may harshly criticize yourself for not being more gregarious, powerful, or capable of greater leadership.
Your challenge in life is to maintain your independence without feeling isolated or ineffectual. You must hold fast to your unique view on the world, while at the same time being open to others and the knowledge they have to offer. With your abilities to learn, analyze, seek out answers to life's important questions, you have the potential for enormous growth and success in life. By the time you reach middle age, you will radiate refinement and wisdom.
Pythagoras loved the seven for its great spiritual potential.
Your Life Path number is the most important influence in your chart. As such, their compatibility is very important to the well being of your relationship.
John and Jane, your Life Path Compatibility is 2 and 7
In this combination of numbers, intuition meets intelligence, sensitivity meets clinical research, and the heart meets the mind. It would be a challenge to find two more different archetypes than yours. John and Jane, you have a surprising relationship. Rarely do people with such different characteristics express even the slightest interest in each other. But when they do, the partnership is worth every effort. You almost certainly met under unusual circumstances, perhaps when you were both outside of your normal environment (I am guessing John, the 2, initially reached out to Jane). Once these dissimilar numbers (and personalities) get close enough, the result is often an exchange of energy that welds the relationship for life.
Potential pitfalls in this combination are generally experienced at the beginning of the relationship. There could be many challenges, including the inability to relate to your partner's way of thinking, feeling, or expressing emotion.
John's approach to love is soft and gentle, idealistic, romantic, emotional, and innocently childlike. Jane is less emotional and expressive - like a precious jewel, it requires a great deal to earn their love. Wisdom and knowledge, spiritual understanding and an ageless quality strengthen Jane's love. At the onset of the relationship, this was probably the biggest hurdle to overcome. Jane is not likely to trust love that comes easily, and John does not understand how responding to something as natural as love should be so difficult.
Sometimes, a relationship with this combination occurs after the partners have known each other for some time, when trust and understanding have been established (and before either considered a romantic relationship). A romance based on this solid foundation, balanced by pure sentiment on one side and wisdom and spiritual understanding on the other cannot help but succeed.
If you can accept and respect one another's differences, this will be the glue that binds your unique relationship together - a bond that you could say is almost unbreakable.
Your Expression number, calculated from your full name at birth, reveals the orientation or goal of your life. Some numerologists refer to this as your Destiny number because it represents a lifelong target at which you are aiming. Thus, the Expression number, to some extent, reveals the person you aim to be.
Your Expression is the most influential of the three characteristics that make up who you are. It is also the number with the most influence on your choice of career, although other aspects are important as well.
John, your Expression is 5

You are a free spirit. You love change, adventure, and excitement. You love your freedom. Like a bird that needs its wings to live, you cannot exist without it. Freedom is the nucleus around which your life revolves. You need it for your very survival. By using freedom properly, you are able to explore and develop all of your varied talents. You will meet many types of people and travel great distances. Freedom is the atmosphere necessary for you to bring forth your many talents.
You are capable of doing almost anything, and probably quite well. Only by avoiding the imprisonment of illusory security are you able to bring forth your abilities.
You are unusually adaptable. In fact, change is a blessing for you. In the same way, you need challenge and variety. You hate the routine of life; being stuck is a catastrophe for you. You become miserable when you are held back or held down. The taste and texture and color of life have an overpowering allure for you. From childhood, you dream of seeing foreign lands, experiencing the sensual and the exotic. You want to try everything at least once in life. All of life is a playground for your senses.
But this can get you into trouble. You may fail to respect your natural limits, either biologically or socially. Any boundary is anathema to you, which can blind you to your natural limits, and may cause you to overindulge your desire for food, sweets, alcohol, sex, and drugs.
You are gifted in your ability to communicate. Your facility with words is almost limitless. You can be a salesman, politician, lawyer, public relations person, and minister. You also possess the talent to share and advance new ideas. You are talented with your hands. You love the new and untried. Your field is the frontier. You are a bit of a gambler and often play for very high stakes. All of this combines to give you a youthful enthusiasm, which others find infectious and attractive. You like to work with others but need to perform your task unencumbered by the restraints of others.
You are a clever and a quick thinker, but your thought processes -- like your life in general -- can be unorganized and scattered. You must stay grounded and focused if you want to be successful.
You fall in and out of love frequently, especially early in life. You are naturally sensual and commonly have a strong sex drive. These characteristics usually make for a lively and exciting love life, but you must guard against shallow feelings and relationships. Your challenge is to develop mature and lasting relationships. Self-discipline and setting healthy limits are the key to your success in virtually every area of your life.
Ironically, you will find that as you learn to set appropriate limits on yourself, you develop more self- mastery and realize even greater freedom. This is especially true when it comes to finishing what you start. Your tendency is to give up once you've got a project or job under control; you grow bored quickly. You start to fantasize about a new challenge, or the rewards of your great accomplishment, long before the work is finished.
The 5 Expression desires the whole world. You are aware that you have many talents that can bring much success. But that success depends on your willingness to choose certain areas to concentrate on, and to bring them to perfection.
Jane, your Expression is 1

You are a natural leader, independent and individualistic. You are extremely ambitious, original, and courageous. You employ new and unproven methods. You are an explorer and an innovator. Openness to too many peripheral influences limits and frustrates you. You are self-reliant, confident, and energetic. You easily assume the role of protector. You spring into action when leadership is needed.
You possess executive abilities and are most successful at owning or independently managing a business. You need the freedom to make your decisions, based on your ideas. You can be an astute politician. You also possess the ability to influence the opinions of your milieu.
The number 1 symbolizes the front-runner, pioneer, warrior, risk-taker, and daredevil. Generals, top politicians, successful businessmen, self-made millionaires, religious leaders, inventors, activists, and avant-garde artists are often born with a 1 Expression.
Strength and perseverance are central to your success. You must be willing to travel the frontiers of life, away from the beaten path. You possess a great reserve of willpower that must be directed at your goals. You do not give up, but relentlessly pursue your aims.
You are quite opinionated. People tend to be inspired or repelled by your strong personality. You have great powers of concentration and the ability to visualize your goals, thus making them more attainable. You stand up for your convictions and hold your ground. All of these abilities enhance your chances of success in life.
There is a tendency to be self-centered. You can be domineering and, in the extreme, a bully. You can be highly critical of others, complaining that people lack the industry or determination you possess. But this lack of understanding can alienate friends and family members from you. You must learn to control this tendency to maintain harmony in relationships. Once you are convinced of the inherent correctness of your ideas, you stubbornly -- and sometimes rigidly -- defend and propagate them. Avoid obstinacy and antagonism. You must cultivate balance, compassion, and perseverance.
Pride can be your downfall. You so powerfully identify with your goals and ambitions, you sometimes refuse to see a potential flaw or weakness in your well-laid plans.
You possess strength and determination, which, when applied to any endeavor you are committed to, will lead you to great success in life.
More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number reflects who you are as a whole person on a deep level (rather than the "face" you show to the world, described by your Personality number).
It cannot be over-emphasized how important it is to recognize that the same number in a different area of your chart will affect you differently. There may be times you read something that seems to directly contradict an earlier statement. Yet, if you take time to carefully think about the opposing information you might recognize that, being the complex individual you are, you carry the same contradictions. This is natural and true for all of us. You may excel at organization in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another. You may be tactful and sensitive in one setting, but direct and confrontational in another.
Be aware that it is more difficult to overcome negative traits you recognize in yourself when they are found in this part of the chart, than when they are found under the Life Path description.
John and Jane, your Expression Compatibility is 5 and 1
The compatibility of these numbers is about as good as it gets. There will rarely be boredom, complacency or emptiness in a relationship that has heads turning and people whispering. Like wind and fire, the personality traits in this combination have the potential to create or destroy, however the 1 and 5 generally compliment and respect one another. Together these influences are like a thoroughbred and its rider; when they work in harmony, nothing can stop them. This is a relationship of intensity and highs rarely achieved by others. It carries the promise of ecstatic experiences of love, spiritual bonding, and shared dreams.
As with any number combination, potential challenges also exist. Perhaps there will be a change in your circumstances or interests that turn one or both of you away from previously shared dreams. Or a healthy desire for variety, sensual pleasure, or adventure might become extreme, negatively affecting previous agreements.
Continuing to reach upward takes effort, while backsliding is just a matter of letting go. If you maintain the effort (and a little self-control) to keep your relationship moving, this can be a wonderful ride. You will both need to stay alert. It is common for partners with this combination to pull each other down. Without moderation, this pairing can lead to substance abuse, addiction, and ultimately blaming others, including each other, for your misfortune. Sharing this combination of numbers can be compared to skating on thin ice.
John, it is important for you to stay focused on what you want from life. Try not to get distracted or seduced by the pleasures that are easily obtainable but detrimental. Set high standards for yourself. In this relationship, Jane should probably play the role of captain, but not because John is incapable. As a matter of fact, John has enormous talent in many areas. However, it is likely that Jane's energy is more directed and controlled, while John's is more dynamic and volatile, although not in an aggressive way. John is impulsive and responsive to the moment, which can be an asset in many situations, but they are also vulnerable to being misguided.
While this is one of the most promising and enduring combinations, it is also one that could take you both to the edge. Discipline and moderation are the key words for this relationship.
The Expression number described above points to a more productive side of your life. Your Heart's Desire reflects a deeper, inner you; it suggests an underlying urge, your true motivation, and the general intention behind many of your actions. It reveals the environment and lifestyle you prefer, as well as your likes, dislikes, and the type of people you are drawn to. Consequently, it dramatically influences the choices you make in life.
It makes sense that the vowels of your name are the foundation for your Heart's Desire. Vowels are the peaks and valleys of a language. Notice how vowels leave your mouth in a free-flowing breath. Try it: Aaaa.... Eeee.... Oooo.. Consonants though, are cut off either at the beginning or in the end.
You might say that it is in the flow of your breath that you express your deeper self.
John, your Heart's Desire number is 1

Your overpowering need is to be independent and to direct your own life according to what you believe. Your dream is to become the leader of whatever field you enter. Whether it is in business, community, or in your general area of expertise, you are driven to be the reigning figure. You have the courage and the confidence to lead others. You believe firmly that your judgment is preeminent over all others. This gives you the confidence to make bold decisions and carry them out, even when other lives are greatly affected by what you do. You rarely look back once you have decided.
You possess intelligence and wit. You are keenly insightful and are good at evaluating the abilities of others. You are supremely individualistic. In your manner and dress, you like to project your own unique persona. Consequently, you don't mind being controversial, and can even enjoy the attention and impact you have made on your surroundings.
You dislike routines, or anything that limits your freedom and independence. Whenever you commit to something you truly love, you are tenacious in your ability to endure difficulties and overcome obstacles. You are highly responsible; you hate passing the buck. You possess remarkable willpower and a strong drive to succeed. You are always looking for innovative ways of doing things.
Because you seek to be the boss in any endeavor, you tend to dominate others. If you are not careful, especially in dealing with your subordinates and family, you may become ruthless in your decisions and behavior. You can also fall victim to impatience and intolerance, particularly if you grow conceited or superior.
You are the pioneer and the ground-breaker. You love the foreground, the hot-seat of responsibility. You have all the talents to succeed. If you maintain balance in your life, allowing others full expression of their thoughts and abilities, you will easily rise to the top of your chosen field and realize your ambitions.
Jane, your Heart's Desire number is 3

You love a good time. You are generally happy, friendly, and outgoing. You have a gift for gab. You are very witty, creative, and playful. You inspire and entertain people. You are considered by many a great companion. Many outstanding comedians have this Heart's Desire. You have a good mental and emotional balance and there is little that gets you down.
You have a gift for self-expression and are drawn to the verbal arts -- writing, acting, singing, and poetry. You may have a great talent in one of these areas. If your creativity is blocked or suppressed, you tend to daydream and fantasize. Your imagination needs a constructive outlet; otherwise, it may run away with you.
At the same time, you may have great difficulty expressing your deeper feelings and important personal thoughts. You prefer to stay on the surface, entertaining people with your wit. If you fail to deal honestly with your inner nature, you may succumb to compulsive talking. Such behavior may be merely a way of siphoning off emotional energy that is building beneath your surface. Your deeply felt emotional life cannot be avoided or suppressed. But you possess the talent to channel these feelings into highly creative and artistic form. Art and self-expression are your outlets.
You need discipline to make full use of your abilities. Too often, you may scatter your energies in many directions, beginning projects that are never finished and never really succeeding in anything. Your success depends on your ability to commit to your work and to see it through to completion. You have so much creativity and inspiring upward energy that you are in desperate need of an anchor. Hard work and discipline serve this purpose and bring out the best in you.
Because you are gifted with such a sparkling personality, you are tempted to stay on the surface and play with life. You are confident and love the attention others give you, but these characteristics can lead to vanity and self-absorption.
You have the potential to live a very full and successful life thanks to your talent for artistic self-expression. The key to your success is a balance between the creative forces and self-disclose.
Compatibility of the Heart's Desire number is very important in a relationship. Few relationships last beyond the initial stage if these numbers are not harmonious.
John and Jane, your Heart's Desire Compatibility is 1 and 3
You are both fortunate to have formed one of the most charmed combinations for a happy, pleasurable, long-lasting relationship. The individualism and originality of the 1 (John) combined with the creativity and "anything goes" attitude of the 3 (Jane) creates an exciting and often adventurous relationship. Unlike many couples you play together, laugh together, and likely have inspirational and enlightening conversations.
The characteristics of the 1 make John the central force in this relationship, while Jane contributes by bringing the sunshine and lightness of heart that will help the two of you deal with obstacles more easily than other couples.
Despite the unusual number of positive aspects in this combination, you should be on the alert for potential pitfalls. John values responsibility and loyalty and has a natural ability to put forth sustained effort in pursuit of goals and dreams. Jane is more playful, creative, and restless, and changes direction easily, especially if a goal seems difficult to reach. (This could be frustrating for John.) But paradoxically, it is precisely these differences that bring balance to your relationship.
All in all, there is little negative to report about your combination. With an eye on potential challenges, continue to fully explore your respective natural qualities and enjoy a happy, enriching and rewarding life together for many, many years. You can develop your relationship to (near) perfection.
The consonants of your full name at birth are the foundation of your Personality number, which is a little like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your true nature. It's the outer layer of your personality, the part you feel comfortable sharing. With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper aspects of your nature.
Your Personality number serves as a censoring device in terms of what you send out, as well as whom and what you allow to approach. For this reason, your Personality is usually narrower and more protective in its definition than the real you. It also gives an indication of how others perceive you.
John, your Personality number is 4

You radiate reliability and consistency. People trust you and feel secure with your judgment. You are seen as a cornerstone of a business and are relied upon to do your work efficiently and expertly. You have strength and respectability. You tend to dress in a utilitarian manner, concerned mostly with convention, practicality, durability, and price. You present yourself as someone who values correctness, control, and precision.
All of this stems from the fact that your most prized characteristic is your work. You want to be judged on the basis of your performance, rather than your appearance. You are frugal and have learned to respect a dollar. You are concerned about the security of your future and those you love. However, this may appear to others as a bit too austere.
You tend to wear earth colors and conventional attire. You could benefit by putting a little flair in your dress. Wear more uplifting colors. Loosen your dress with less severe lines. If you wear a brown suit, include a bright tie or some jewelry.
You are a family person. You love the intimacy, consistency, and the security a family provides. You are a good provider and protector. But family members may take your efforts for granted.
You are a true patriot. You love your country and are an integral part of your community. Your consistency and adherence to your well-laid plans usually pays off in a comfortable and secure future.
Jane, your Personality number is 7

You seem mysterious and different. People see you as serious and studious. You are highly independent and self- sufficient. Your exceptional intelligence and wisdom are quickly noticed, people respect you. You are not one to attract people on the basis of your warmth or compassion -- though you may be loaded with both -- but because of your obvious insight into life's mysteries. You are hard to get to know. You are often withdrawn.
It is common for people to see your focus turn inside of yourself in the middle of a conversation. You have the makings of an intellectual and an aristocrat, but you have to guard against arrogance and an attitude of, "I've got it all figured out".
There have been periods in your life when you had little concern for your clothing or fashion, while at other times you are very aware of your clothing and use it to make a specific impression. You appear dignified no matter how you dress., but a well-groomed seven with a touch of dash definitely has an advantage. Your confidence increases when you know you are well dressed.
Your love of knowledge and wisdom shows. You are recognized as spiritual and religious, with your very own ideas regarding the purpose of life and the Creator. You are an inspired speaker, but only when discussing subjects that really interest you. Otherwise, you are not one for chatter.
Your Personality is the first aspect people notice when you first meet. Very few relationships have a chance to progress if their Personality numbers are not compatible.
John and Jane, your Personality Compatibility is 4 and 7
John and Jane, your combination is almost made in heaven. "Almost" because you likely have a few sharp angles that need smoothing. Your numbers suggest this relationship is founded more on intellect and inner/spiritual levels than on the sensual, physical plane.
John is practical, grounded, and goal oriented; they are a doer who can take an idea, quickly eliminate what is unrealistic or unworkable, and bring it to fruition. John is of the earth. Jane, on the other hand, is the seeker: philosophical, intellectual, a bit of a dreamer, and full of ideas. Earth and heaven make up this combination and neither can exist without the other. Although this is only one aspect of the chart, its influence will help you overcome many of the obstacles and challenges inherent in every relationship.
This combination is often found among relationships that started early in life. The numbers are drawn to each other because what each has to offer is exactly what the other needs. John (the 4) is attracted to Jane's more abstract and philosophical outlook on life. It inspires a sense of freedom and space that is lacking in their own solid, dependable, but sometimes too structured and restrictive views. John offers Jane a stable, secure port in an internal universe that is often chaotic and unstable. With the 7 as their number, Jane understands the dangers that lurk in the corners of the subconscious when the mind wonders too far into the realm of dreams and abstract fears. Where John offers stability, peace, and comfort, Jane brings freedom to John's more restrictive mental approach. The complimentary traits of the 4 and 7 create a romance that can last a lifetime.
The areas where you may need to compromise are of the more mundane, material type. While John requires order and respectability (and feels uncomfortable and insecure without it), Jane is comfortable with a bit of chaos and is not concerned about the approval of others. If you are successful in accommodating each other in these areas, you should be able to get as close to being "soul mates" as any two people can.
Your Maturity number indicates an underlying wish or desire that gradually surfaces at around age 30 to 35. A direction begins to emerge as you gain a better understanding of yourself. With this self-knowledge comes a greater awareness of who you are, and the direction you want to set for your life.
John, your Maturity number is 7

As you mature, you will become increasingly occupied with the larger questions of life, reading, contemplating and searching for a deeper understanding of who you are and what this life is all about. You may turn to philosophy or religion, but will likely examine a wide array of areas, broadening your knowledge in many disciplines.
Your intuition grows stronger, as does your ability to look beneath the surface of every subject you study. You are able to analyze abstract questions and live according to your higher ideals. You may find yourself needing more time alone; your need for privacy will likely increase.
If you already have several sevens in your chart, you will have to guard against becoming withdrawn, and alienated. If you have no sevens, you will now have the ability to deepen your understanding of one particular field. You will have the opportunity to become grounded in a particular area of study.
Jane, your Maturity number is 8

As you mature, you will grow in success and financial reward. You will find yourself deepening your commitment to your work. You will find it easier to overcome difficulties that manifest in your path. Your capacity to use power will grow; you will be recognized as a pillar of influence and dependability within your community. You will have to be strong and self-disciplined to avoid sudden painful material losses. Beware of ego-inflation, the surest symptom of an imminent fall.
The 8 Maturity Number requires a certain degree of detachment from material success; otherwise it will rule your personality and make money an obsession. Detachment allows you to remain focused on the higher values of mankind. One of your important motivations should be a desire to build, create, or market in order to enjoy the game of business.
Your wisdom and sheer common sense are recognized by many and will attract important positions. It is possible that you will be given responsibility for the care and management of another person's property. You may also be asked to guide large institutions.
If you already have several 8s in your chart, especially in the core numbers, you will have to guard against selfishness, accumulation for the sake of status, and greed. If you have few 8s in your chart, or none at all, your opportunity to achieve the success and financial independence is greatly increased.
Your Maturity number becomes more dominant with age. The texts below become increasingly important after about age 40.
John and Jane, your Maturity Compatibility is 7 and 8
John and Jane, this combination indicates your relationship is most likely supported by other numbers and influences in your chart, rather than the 7 and 8 found in this area. The 7 and 8 are usually not attracted to each other or particularly compatible in romantic relationships. The notion that opposites attract does not often hold true here.
This does not mean you cannot have a fulfilling, well-suited relationship, but simply that other numbers in your chart are likely the source of your mutual attraction. Carrying the 7 and the 8 in this location of your chart, however, suggests you have major differences that could cause problems.
Your priorities differ. This aspect of the chart tells us Jane (the 8) has a strong drive for financial success and security. For John, spiritual and intellectual growth is a higher priority. Jane intuitively understands the balance between the material and intangible, which is the reason they excel in business, marketing, or sales. (One must be somewhat detached from material gain to have the vision and clarity it takes to successfully pursue a goal.)
John moves in the inner realms, and is not intrinsically drawn to business, even deeming it unworthy of attention; they would rather discuss political, philosophical, or spiritual matters, with a preference for the abstract - issues that could seem boring to Jane who prefers a practical, down-to-earth approach that focuses on results.
Similarly, you could find yourselves at opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to likes and dislikes, from movies to books, travel to housing, decorating, art, and so forth. John might enjoy living in a rather isolated, cozy, country home, while Jane would be happy in a futuristic loft in a large metropolis. The friends you attract will also be quite different. The 7 in John's chart points to quiet conversations rather than loud parties. Jane occasionally enjoys an energetic environment and interaction with others.
The potential lack of compatibility between these numbers has nothing to do with the heart. It generally involves practical preferences, such as where to live, how to decorate the house, and who you become friends with. This can be overcome by allowing each other considerable space and freedom in the way you live your lives. You will both need to recognize and accept your differences. Keep in mind there are influences in other areas of your chart that may mitigate some of these contrasts. If so, focus on the things you both enjoy, then allow one another the freedom to express your individuality.