
About Your Relationship Profile
This report analyzes the personalities of both individuals to assess their compatibility. It also offers suggestions for ways to mitigate the stress or damage that can come from differing personalities and perspectives.
When you are in a relationship, you come to know each other more deeply over time. At first friction is rare. As time goes by and you discover additional sides to your partner, you become aware of personality traits you appreciate as well as some that rub you the wrong way. Even if you consider your relationship nearly perfect, you will experience occasional bouts of conflict.
Negative traits are almost always a cause of friction, but it is interesting to note that some qualities that are considered positive can also be incompatible. You may find this report is more critical or even harsh compared to other readings of this type. My approach is designed to throw light on differences in your chart that might benefit from a frank, unbiased examination. Ignoring potential issues can cause more damage overall than a few honest remarks in a reading.
You will probably encounter some texts that state: "The compatibility aspect in this area of the chart is already included in other parts of this report." Those texts are not repeated here because they are either redundant or offset by other conditions. This is done to offer a perspective that is as well balanced and clear as possible; repeating certain traits would place too much emphasis on them.
John and TestCurrentHafeez, I hope you will appreciate the perspective of your Compatibility Report and will find it beneficial to your relationship.
Please note we use gender-neutral language when addressing individuals in our relationship readings. To some, using the singular "they," "them," and "their" may sound awkward, but we believe words matter. We aspire to include everyone.
Please verify that the name and date of birth showing below are accurate.
Your Life Path number is considered the single most significant information available in your Personality Chart. It is derived from the total of all numbers found in your date of birth. However, it is important to keep in mind that the aspects described in the next few chapters will either complement, supplement, or sometimes weaken the attributes revealed in numbers derived from your name.
John, your Life Path number is 2

The key word in your nature is peacemaker. John, you have the soul of an artist. You are extremely sensitive, perceptive, and a bit shy. These qualities are both your strengths and weaknesses, for while you possess enormous sensitivity to your feelings and those of others, that same sensitivity can cause you to hold back and repress your considerable talents. Sensitivity and perceptiveness are among your many fine qualities.
Because you intuitively know what people want, or feel, you can be extremely diplomatic and tactful. You are also patient and cooperative. You work well with groups and somehow find a way of creating harmony among diverse opinions.
You enjoy music and poetry and require a harmonious environment. You have an eye for beauty and a fine sense of balance and rhythm. You have healing capabilities, especially in such fields as massage, acupuncture, physical therapy, and counseling. However, your sensitivity can also be your downfall.
Your delicate ego bruises easily and can make too much of someone else's thoughtless remarks or criticisms. Because you get hurt easily, you may tend to withhold your own thoughts and contributions to the matter at hand. This can cause you considerable resentment and anger. Too often, you run from confrontation to avoid a battle.
When you employ your considerable inner strength, you will discover your enormous power and abilities to direct difficult situations toward your own goals. It is the awareness of your inner strength that will give you the courage to use your own personal power when it is needed. You are a sensitive and passionate lover; your perceptiveness makes you aware of your partner's needs and desires, which you are able to fulfill with almost magical delicacy.
However, when you feel you have been mistreated or jilted, you can react with devastating power, sometimes using personal criticisms vindictively. Your awareness, diplomatic skills, and organizational talents give you the ability to bring off difficult tasks. You willingly step out of the limelight to facilitate the success of your endeavor. In truth, you are often the power behind the throne. However, you do not always receive the credit you deserve for the fine work you've done, or your role is underestimated, and your accomplishments overlooked.
Rather than brood over your losses, you need to confront those who would make less of your contributions and stand up for your accomplishments. You need security and comfort, quiet settings, and the company of loved ones. You are a perfectionist when it comes to your home and work environment.
You have excellent taste which is obvious in your private surroundings. You are a fine companion and possess a good sense of humor. Friends seek you out for your calming and peaceful company. You are a safe haven to other sensitive people, who recognize your compassion and understanding. When you have found your niche in life, you have all the talents and intelligence for great success. Seek out work that allows your sensitive nature to flourish -- be the glue that binds others together.
TestCurrentHafeez, your Life Path number is 8

You are gifted with natural leadership and the capacity to accumulate great wealth. You have great talent for management in all areas of life, especially in business and financial matters. You understand the material world; you intuitively know what makes virtually any enterprise work. Your talent lies not with the bookkeeping or petty management, but with the greater vision, its purpose, and long-range goals. You are a visionary and a bit reckless.
You possess the ability to inspire people to join you in your quest, but often they are incapable of seeing what you see. Therefore, those around you need your continual guidance, inspiration, and encouragement. You must prod them into action and direct them along the lines of your vision.
You attract financial success more than any other Life Path, but effort is required. Your challenge in life is to achieve a high degree of detachment, to understand that power and influence must be used for the benefit of mankind. Those born with the Number 8 Life Path, who do not understand the real and relative value of money are bound to suffer the consequences of greed; they run the risk of losing it all!
You must learn to bounce back from failures and defeats. You have the character and resilience of a true survivor. It is not uncommon for a person with your Life Path to experience major reverses, including bankruptcies, financial failure, but you also have the talent and the sheer guts to make more than one fortune, and build many successful enterprises. More than most people, your failures in marriage can be extremely expensive for you.
Despite the difficulties that life presents, you will experience the satisfaction that comes from material wealth and the power that comes with it. Business, finance, real estate, law, science (particularly history, archeology, and physics), publishing, and the management of large institutions are among the vocational fields that suit you best. You are naturally attracted to positions of influence and leadership -- Politics, social work, and teaching are among the many other areas where your abilities can shine. You are a good judge of character, which aids you well in attracting the right people to you.
Most 8s like large families and sometimes tend to keep others dependent longer than necessary. Although jovial in nature you are not demonstrative in showing your love and affection.
The desire for luxury and comfort is especially strong in you. Status is very important. You must be careful to avoid living above your means.
Your Life Path treads that dangerous ground where power lies -- and can corrupt. You may become too self-important, arrogant, and domineering, thinking that your way is the only way. This leads inevitably to isolation and conflict. The people you run the risk of hurting most are those you love, your family and friends.
Be careful of becoming stubborn, intolerant, overbearing, and impatient. These characteristics may be born early in the life of an 8 Life Path, who often learn these negative traits after suffering under a tyrannical parent or a family burdened by repressive religious or intellectual dogmas.
Those with the 8 Life Path usually possess a strong physique, which is a symptom of their inherent strength and resiliency.
Your Life Path number is the most important influence in your chart. As such, their compatibility is very important to the well being of your relationship.
John and TestCurrentHafeez, your Life Path Compatibility is 2 and 8
John is drawn to TestCurrentHafeez in part because TestCurrentHafeez has great inner strength and the kind of personal power that could lead to worldly success. Capable and goal-oriented, TestCurrentHafeez is a force to be reckoned with.
TestCurrentHafeez is attracted to John largely because they recognize in John an emotional and inner/spiritual wealth that has likely remained dormant in their own life, at least to some extent. John experiences life on many levels, they know the heart and understand the power of emotions. When brought together, the innate qualities of the 2 (John) and the 8 (TestCurrentHafeez) can produce a rewarding, balanced relationship.
This is a combination with the potential to survive long-term, however, there is also the possibility of miscalculating your strength as a couple. The relationship between the 2 and 8 is sometimes based on the "illusion" or assumption that the partner will never change. John admires TestCurrentHafeez's strength and believes it will always be there. TestCurrentHafeez is attracted to John's romantic, emotional nature and expects it to be unwavering. But there will be times when strength will falter, and the heart will seem to lose interest. However, remaining alert and responsive to each other, and not allowing issues to fester can overcome these challenges.
Every couple must accept the changing nature of relationships, that they ebb and flow over time. The key for success in yours is to recognize each other as whole, complex individuals, seeing beyond your first impression and your partner's most distinctive characteristics. John must respect and accept TestCurrentHafeez's strengths and abilities, as well as their weaknesses. TestCurrentHafeez needs to realize John is more than the gentle, romantic, accommodating partner they first fell in love with.
Few combinations tend to give birth to relationships based on misperception as often as the 2 and the 8. But remember, this is just one aspect of your chart. You both have many other qualities to bring to your relationship. Combine your respective strengths and you should have a rewarding, long-lasting relationship.
Your Expression number, calculated from your full name at birth, reveals the orientation or goal of your life. Some numerologists refer to this as your Destiny number because it represents a lifelong target at which you are aiming. Thus, the Expression number, to some extent, reveals the person you aim to be.
Your Expression is the most influential of the three characteristics that make up who you are. It is also the number with the most influence on your choice of career, although other aspects are important as well.
John, your Expression is 5

You are a free spirit. You love change, adventure, and excitement. You love your freedom. Like a bird that needs its wings to live, you cannot exist without it. Freedom is the nucleus around which your life revolves. You need it for your very survival. By using freedom properly, you are able to explore and develop all of your varied talents. You will meet many types of people and travel great distances. Freedom is the atmosphere necessary for you to bring forth your many talents.
You are capable of doing almost anything, and probably quite well. Only by avoiding the imprisonment of illusory security are you able to bring forth your abilities.
You are unusually adaptable. In fact, change is a blessing for you. In the same way, you need challenge and variety. You hate the routine of life; being stuck is a catastrophe for you. You become miserable when you are held back or held down. The taste and texture and color of life have an overpowering allure for you. From childhood, you dream of seeing foreign lands, experiencing the sensual and the exotic. You want to try everything at least once in life. All of life is a playground for your senses.
But this can get you into trouble. You may fail to respect your natural limits, either biologically or socially. Any boundary is anathema to you, which can blind you to your natural limits, and may cause you to overindulge your desire for food, sweets, alcohol, sex, and drugs.
You are gifted in your ability to communicate. Your facility with words is almost limitless. You can be a salesman, politician, lawyer, public relations person, and minister. You also possess the talent to share and advance new ideas. You are talented with your hands. You love the new and untried. Your field is the frontier. You are a bit of a gambler and often play for very high stakes. All of this combines to give you a youthful enthusiasm, which others find infectious and attractive. You like to work with others but need to perform your task unencumbered by the restraints of others.
You are a clever and a quick thinker, but your thought processes -- like your life in general -- can be unorganized and scattered. You must stay grounded and focused if you want to be successful.
You fall in and out of love frequently, especially early in life. You are naturally sensual and commonly have a strong sex drive. These characteristics usually make for a lively and exciting love life, but you must guard against shallow feelings and relationships. Your challenge is to develop mature and lasting relationships. Self-discipline and setting healthy limits are the key to your success in virtually every area of your life.
Ironically, you will find that as you learn to set appropriate limits on yourself, you develop more self- mastery and realize even greater freedom. This is especially true when it comes to finishing what you start. Your tendency is to give up once you've got a project or job under control; you grow bored quickly. You start to fantasize about a new challenge, or the rewards of your great accomplishment, long before the work is finished.
The 5 Expression desires the whole world. You are aware that you have many talents that can bring much success. But that success depends on your willingness to choose certain areas to concentrate on, and to bring them to perfection.
TestCurrentHafeez, your Expression is 3

You are optimistic, inspiring, outgoing, and expressive. People see you as cheerful, positive and charming; your personality has a certain bounce and verve that so powerfully affects others that you can inspire people without effort. All of this upward energy is a symptom of your tremendous creativity. Your verbal skills may well lead you into the fields of writing, comedy, theater, and music.
Yours is the number of self-expression -- rich in imagination and spirit. But you have to be careful not to scatter your talents. Your bane is that you often lack discipline and order in your life. Avoid becoming a "happy- go-lucky" spendthrift, escaping responsibility and commitment. You must learn to concentrate and focus. These are the keys to your success. You have great potential in the arts and areas that requires creative solutions to problems. You are able to perform leaps of imagination, providing unconventional ideas as if they suddenly descended from above. Hard work and focus, however, are the foundation for a successful future.
Though you possess great verbal skills, your mind tends to see life as pictures rather than in words. You have the ability to think abstractly.
Creativity is a sensitive faculty that is often suppressed in childhood. If you lack the confidence to pursue your ideas, you may divert your abilities into a scattering of trivial pursuits. To overcome this problem, you must make a choice. You have to limit your field of vision and the number of activities you engage in and bundle your energies into a single thrust. Focus your life; choose the area that you love the most and commit. There, you will find success. And a great deal of happiness.
Love, romance, and money are within your reach. You are aided by your friends and admirers. Often people appear out of nowhere to help you in key situations. John, you have to learn to accept the involvement of others in your life. You are not a loner, nor are you particularly independent. You are social -- you need an audience and the support of others to fully realize your abilities.
On the down-side, you can be superficial, moody, and intolerant. You are emotional and sensitive, sometimes presuming criticism where none was intended. You can also be jealous and gossipy. Beware of becoming cynical and sarcastic. These traits can suppress your natural creativity. Be goal-oriented. This is a practical, step-by-step approach to your larger ambitions. You possess the natural abilities to attain a high degree of excellence.
More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number reflects who you are as a whole person on a deep level (rather than the "face" you show to the world, described by your Personality number).
It cannot be over-emphasized how important it is to recognize that the same number in a different area of your chart will affect you differently. There may be times you read something that seems to directly contradict an earlier statement. Yet, if you take time to carefully think about the opposing information you might recognize that, being the complex individual you are, you carry the same contradictions. This is natural and true for all of us. You may excel at organization in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another. You may be tactful and sensitive in one setting, but direct and confrontational in another.
Be aware that it is more difficult to overcome negative traits you recognize in yourself when they are found in this part of the chart, than when they are found under the Life Path description.
John and TestCurrentHafeez, your Expression Compatibility is 5 and 3
This is an excellent combination, but because the partners are so compatible, they sometimes enhance each other's less-desirable traits. TestCurrentHafeez is upbeat, expressive, creative, and playful, but not always focused or practical. John is dynamic, social, and adventurous, with a tendency to overindulge. If you share a home, you will have little trouble creating a living environment and a lifestyle suitable to both of you.
You both communicate well, and your verbal skills make you a popular couple. In fact, one of the things that could trip you up is your popular, social nature. Either one of you (especially TestCurrentHafeez could become jealous of the other). You both thrive on taking center stage and enjoy the spotlight; this has the potential to create a competitive atmosphere.
TestCurrentHafeez, John may tend to say impulsive things that are hurtful or suddenly allude to a problem you were unaware of. You may need to read between the lines, however, because they may not address it directly. A similar issue could arise from TestCurrentHafeez's susceptibility to skim over deeper issues, especially those that are emotional. John needs to be aware that, even after years together, TestCurrentHafeez may not easily reveal their deeper feelings. If you are not observant, either of you could be experiencing inner turmoil without your partner being aware of it.
Generally, the 3 (TestCurrentHafeez) and the 5 (John) get along very well. TestCurrentHafeez is drawn to John's dynamic, exciting personality; John enjoys TestCurrentHafeez's wacky sense of humor and upbeat nature. This is a good combination that can last a lifetime. If problems arise that jeopardize the relationship, it will likely be due to the lack of deep, personal communication. Both the 3 and 5 tend to keep emotional issues on the back burner instead of dealing with them directly. Once the turbulence eventually reaches the surface, it is often too late to heal the discord that has festered.
John and TestCurrentHafeez is it essential that you confide in and pay attention to each other. Watch for subtle signs of unease or anger and deal with it immediately in an open, direct, and compassionate way. It is the key to sharing an inspiring, creative, lively, happy life.
The Expression number described above points to a more productive side of your life. Your Heart's Desire reflects a deeper, inner you; it suggests an underlying urge, your true motivation, and the general intention behind many of your actions. It reveals the environment and lifestyle you prefer, as well as your likes, dislikes, and the type of people you are drawn to. Consequently, it dramatically influences the choices you make in life.
It makes sense that the vowels of your name are the foundation for your Heart's Desire. Vowels are the peaks and valleys of a language. Notice how vowels leave your mouth in a free-flowing breath. Try it: Aaaa.... Eeee.... Oooo.. Consonants though, are cut off either at the beginning or in the end.
You might say that it is in the flow of your breath that you express your deeper self.
John, your Heart's Desire number is 1

Your overpowering need is to be independent and to direct your own life according to what you believe. Your dream is to become the leader of whatever field you enter. Whether it is in business, community, or in your general area of expertise, you are driven to be the reigning figure. You have the courage and the confidence to lead others. You believe firmly that your judgment is preeminent over all others. This gives you the confidence to make bold decisions and carry them out, even when other lives are greatly affected by what you do. You rarely look back once you have decided.
You possess intelligence and wit. You are keenly insightful and are good at evaluating the abilities of others. You are supremely individualistic. In your manner and dress, you like to project your own unique persona. Consequently, you don't mind being controversial, and can even enjoy the attention and impact you have made on your surroundings.
You dislike routines, or anything that limits your freedom and independence. Whenever you commit to something you truly love, you are tenacious in your ability to endure difficulties and overcome obstacles. You are highly responsible; you hate passing the buck. You possess remarkable willpower and a strong drive to succeed. You are always looking for innovative ways of doing things.
Because you seek to be the boss in any endeavor, you tend to dominate others. If you are not careful, especially in dealing with your subordinates and family, you may become ruthless in your decisions and behavior. You can also fall victim to impatience and intolerance, particularly if you grow conceited or superior.
You are the pioneer and the ground-breaker. You love the foreground, the hot-seat of responsibility. You have all the talents to succeed. If you maintain balance in your life, allowing others full expression of their thoughts and abilities, you will easily rise to the top of your chosen field and realize your ambitions.
TestCurrentHafeez, your Heart's Desire number is 3

You love a good time. You are generally happy, friendly, and outgoing. You have a gift for gab. You are very witty, creative, and playful. You inspire and entertain people. You are considered by many a great companion. Many outstanding comedians have this Heart's Desire. You have a good mental and emotional balance and there is little that gets you down.
You have a gift for self-expression and are drawn to the verbal arts -- writing, acting, singing, and poetry. You may have a great talent in one of these areas. If your creativity is blocked or suppressed, you tend to daydream and fantasize. Your imagination needs a constructive outlet; otherwise, it may run away with you.
At the same time, you may have great difficulty expressing your deeper feelings and important personal thoughts. You prefer to stay on the surface, entertaining people with your wit. If you fail to deal honestly with your inner nature, you may succumb to compulsive talking. Such behavior may be merely a way of siphoning off emotional energy that is building beneath your surface. Your deeply felt emotional life cannot be avoided or suppressed. But you possess the talent to channel these feelings into highly creative and artistic form. Art and self-expression are your outlets.
You need discipline to make full use of your abilities. Too often, you may scatter your energies in many directions, beginning projects that are never finished and never really succeeding in anything. Your success depends on your ability to commit to your work and to see it through to completion. You have so much creativity and inspiring upward energy that you are in desperate need of an anchor. Hard work and discipline serve this purpose and bring out the best in you.
Because you are gifted with such a sparkling personality, you are tempted to stay on the surface and play with life. You are confident and love the attention others give you, but these characteristics can lead to vanity and self-absorption.
You have the potential to live a very full and successful life thanks to your talent for artistic self-expression. The key to your success is a balance between the creative forces and self-disclose.
Compatibility of the Heart's Desire number is very important in a relationship. Few relationships last beyond the initial stage if these numbers are not harmonious.
John and TestCurrentHafeez, your Heart's Desire Compatibility is 1 and 3
You are both fortunate to have formed one of the most charmed combinations for a happy, pleasurable, long-lasting relationship. The individualism and originality of the 1 (John) combined with the creativity and "anything goes" attitude of the 3 (TestCurrentHafeez) creates an exciting and often adventurous relationship. Unlike many couples you play together, laugh together, and likely have inspirational and enlightening conversations.
The characteristics of the 1 make John the central force in this relationship, while TestCurrentHafeez contributes by bringing the sunshine and lightness of heart that will help the two of you deal with obstacles more easily than other couples.
Despite the unusual number of positive aspects in this combination, you should be on the alert for potential pitfalls. John values responsibility and loyalty and has a natural ability to put forth sustained effort in pursuit of goals and dreams. TestCurrentHafeez is more playful, creative, and restless, and changes direction easily, especially if a goal seems difficult to reach. (This could be frustrating for John.) But paradoxically, it is precisely these differences that bring balance to your relationship.
All in all, there is little negative to report about your combination. With an eye on potential challenges, continue to fully explore your respective natural qualities and enjoy a happy, enriching and rewarding life together for many, many years. You can develop your relationship to (near) perfection.
The consonants of your full name at birth are the foundation of your Personality number, which is a little like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your true nature. It's the outer layer of your personality, the part you feel comfortable sharing. With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper aspects of your nature.
Your Personality number serves as a censoring device in terms of what you send out, as well as whom and what you allow to approach. For this reason, your Personality is usually narrower and more protective in its definition than the real you. It also gives an indication of how others perceive you.
John, your Personality number is 4

You radiate reliability and consistency. People trust you and feel secure with your judgment. You are seen as a cornerstone of a business and are relied upon to do your work efficiently and expertly. You have strength and respectability. You tend to dress in a utilitarian manner, concerned mostly with convention, practicality, durability, and price. You present yourself as someone who values correctness, control, and precision.
All of this stems from the fact that your most prized characteristic is your work. You want to be judged on the basis of your performance, rather than your appearance. You are frugal and have learned to respect a dollar. You are concerned about the security of your future and those you love. However, this may appear to others as a bit too austere.
You tend to wear earth colors and conventional attire. You could benefit by putting a little flair in your dress. Wear more uplifting colors. Loosen your dress with less severe lines. If you wear a brown suit, include a bright tie or some jewelry.
You are a family person. You love the intimacy, consistency, and the security a family provides. You are a good provider and protector. But family members may take your efforts for granted.
You are a true patriot. You love your country and are an integral part of your community. Your consistency and adherence to your well-laid plans usually pays off in a comfortable and secure future.
TestCurrentHafeez, your Personality number is 9

You have an impressive and aristocratic bearing. No matter how tall you are, you appear noble and upright. You are very much in control of the image you send out to others. Many actors, dancers, and other performers have a 9 Personality Number.
You are elegant, graceful, and charismatic. Many admire you. You have the kind of stature that pulls people to you or repels them intensely. Some are jealous of you and may seek to belittle you. You may encourage this to some extent by the amount of arrogance you radiate. This is a caution for all 9 Personalities -- they are sometimes aloof and hold themselves above the world. Your challenge is to come down to earth with your fellow man.
Conversely, you have a great compassion for humanity and want to dedicate yourself to improving the lot of others. You are better when dealing with the trials of the many than the trouble of a single person. You are more capable of working on the grand scale, addressing the needs of society, than on a one-to-one basis.
You are kind and sympathetic, helpful and compassionate. Behind the controlled and calm facade, you are sensitive, vulnerable and emotional.
You have excellent taste. There is a good deal of artistic talent in you that shows in your home environment and your clothing. You tend to see yourself as a guardian of society, a benevolent leader, guiding and directing your community toward a better world.
Your Personality is the first aspect people notice when you first meet. Very few relationships have a chance to progress if their Personality numbers are not compatible.
John and TestCurrentHafeez, your Personality Compatibility is 4 and 9
John and TestCurrentHafeez, this part of the chart reveals important differences you will need to address to create a satisfying, long-lasting relationship. Your challenges stem from the difficulty the 4 and 9 have seeing eye-to-eye. The problem is not so much that they are incompatible, they simply do not understand each other.
As you continue reading this section keep in mind this is only one aspect of the chart; you are complex individuals with many additional influences. It is possible that other numbers will mitigate the potential lack of connection often experienced in your combination, and this will not become an issue. However, even with that consideration, you likely have many challenges ahead.
Have you ever met someone you had an immediate dislike for, or perhaps just experienced an inability to relate to on almost any level? No two numbers generate that kind of inexplicable, uncomfortable vibration as clearly as the 4 and the 9. Fortunately, if you are currently in a successful relationship (and not in the early stages of seeing how you feel about someone) you most likely carry other numbers in your chart that are compatible to such an extent that they override this concern.
John and TestCurrentHafeez, the success of your relationship lies in large part on your willingness to give each other a great deal of freedom. Think of this relationship as two strangers who love each other. Some relationships require deep, intimate sharing of ideas, even secrets and inner experiences. This would most likely not only be uncomfortable for you, but it may not be possible. You carry vastly different attitudes and approaches to life. Oddly, in your relationship the motto should probably be the less I know the better. The less you try to "understand" your partner, the more you will be able to allow love to meld your hearts. Openness, acceptance, and respect are key.
John, you will need to accept TestCurrentHafeez's need to devote time and attention to people and projects you do not relate to or are not passionate about. TestCurrentHafeez (the 9) will need to compromise as well. As idealistic as TestCurrentHafeez is, they can sometimes be self-righteous and annoyingly opinionated - and likely irritated by John's practical nature. You will never change your partner. Even with the best intentions, asking them to see things from your perspective will be counterproductive and often create more distance, confusion, and alienation.
There is hope, however, and the potential for a successful, loving relationship if you can accept the fact that you will frequently take different paths. Understand there will most likely always be some distance between you. But if there is, remember that a little separation is the only thing that makes it possible for you to live in harmony. Eliminate the distance and the harmony will no longer exist.
Your Maturity number indicates an underlying wish or desire that gradually surfaces at around age 30 to 35. A direction begins to emerge as you gain a better understanding of yourself. With this self-knowledge comes a greater awareness of who you are, and the direction you want to set for your life.
John, your Maturity number is 7

As you mature, you will become increasingly occupied with the larger questions of life, reading, contemplating and searching for a deeper understanding of who you are and what this life is all about. You may turn to philosophy or religion, but will likely examine a wide array of areas, broadening your knowledge in many disciplines.
Your intuition grows stronger, as does your ability to look beneath the surface of every subject you study. You are able to analyze abstract questions and live according to your higher ideals. You may find yourself needing more time alone; your need for privacy will likely increase.
If you already have several sevens in your chart, you will have to guard against becoming withdrawn, and alienated. If you have no sevens, you will now have the ability to deepen your understanding of one particular field. You will have the opportunity to become grounded in a particular area of study.
TestCurrentHafeez, your Maturity number is 2

As you mature, you will discover that you possess a growing talent for understanding and working with other people. Your ability to influence others through tact and diplomacy will grow. These talents will further you along in your career or business. You will become increasingly shrewd and will learn the art of discrimination. Your sensitivity to the needs and desires of others improves dramatically. You will be able to evaluate their motivations with a growing clarity and uncanny accuracy.
You find you can get more done by persuasion and gentle guidance than by force. You may well have to learn to assume the role as the power behind the throne. Your influence is less public, and you may not always receive the public recognition you deserve. However, your satisfaction comes from seeing the fruition of your own ideas come about, the result of teamwork and cooperative efforts.
If you already have many 2s in your chart, especially in the core numbers, you may become overly sensitive, a characteristic you will have to keep in check. If you have few 2s in your chart, the influence of your Maturity Number will greatly increase your ability to work harmoniously with other people.
Your Maturity number becomes more dominant with age. The texts below become increasingly important after about age 40.
John and TestCurrentHafeez, your Maturity Compatibility is 7 and 2
In this combination of numbers, intuition meets intelligence, sensitivity meets clinical research, and the heart meets the mind. It would be a challenge to find two more different archetypes than yours. John and TestCurrentHafeez, you have a surprising relationship. Rarely do people with such distinctive characteristics express even the slightest interest in each other. But when they do, the partnership is worth every effort. You almost certainly met under unusual circumstances, perhaps when you were both outside of your normal environment (I am guessing TestCurrentHafeez, the 2, initially reached out to John). Once these dissimilar numbers (and personalities) get close enough, the result is often an exchange of energy that welds the relationship for life.
Potential pitfalls in this combination are generally experienced at the beginning of the relationship. There could be many challenges, including the inability to relate to your partner's way of thinking, feeling, or expressing emotion.
TestCurrentHafeez's approach to love is soft and gentle, idealistic, romantic, emotional, and innocently childlike. John is less emotional and expressive - like a precious jewel, it requires a great deal to earn their love. Wisdom and knowledge, spiritual understanding and an ageless quality strengthen John's love. At the onset of the relationship, this was probably the biggest hurdle to overcome. John is not likely to trust love that comes easily, and TestCurrentHafeez does not understand how responding to something as natural as love should be so difficult.
Sometimes, a relationship with this combination occurs after the partners have known each other for some time, when trust and understanding have been established (and before either considered a romantic relationship). A romance based on this solid foundation, balanced by pure sentiment on one side and wisdom and spiritual understanding on the other cannot help but succeed.
If you can accept and respect one another's differences, this will be the glue that binds your unique relationship together - a bond that you could say is almost unbreakable.